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The is not a normal sexual life

There are a couple, because his wife is ill cannot have sex, had to hand stimulating each other instead. This was nothing to make a fuss, but both husband and wife suspect he is \"abnormal\" are complaining about is the other side of forcing yourself to do, eventually even mistakenly thinking that they are \"sexual\", resulting in feelings of both sides not only face a rupture, and both feel \"normal\" before not lift your head, inferiority to affect work, influence and colleagues from the stage. It is not worth it.


But this story should not have happened in real life is really too much, just people embarrassed to say it. Social survey found that in the minds of many, in fact, and do not fit into much actual scientific judgment standard, but \"normal\" ghost worship and seeking, \"anomalous\" fear and self doubt, like spiderweb-like layers of wrapping, as deeply rooted as sago, is the time for the Flash Player cache.


Normal cannot be taken for granted


Since China\'s past few dissemination of scientific knowledge, especially knowledge of specific sexual behaviors, there are many couples never have heard there are other ways or habits, but to the way you use your current or past habits of blind self as \"normal\" or \"should\". As for why, they say is not clear.



It is also good. There are also couples not only self properly, also invented some further reasons to demonstrate that they properly, even think that is perfectly justified in their own way is not changed, there would have been worse. For example, in the Northwest area of China there is a folk saying: husband not kiss the bride\'s nipple, after she had children, you will have no milk. Most couples listened, HA HA smile is done for, but just stick to some husbands. Wife of postpartum milk shortage, to conclude that because regulation of their wedding night made a day. Last wife was a little milk are all gone. There is another civil claims, that nipples became husband Kiss sucking wife \"son milk\" great loss of dignity. When some women in sarcasm man, \"eat my milk\" to belittle other\'s seniority. For example, to those men who watch wife too much chest, women often fell to his sentence: \"eat!\" The result, wives breasts seem to have become a restricted area. There is a known book to ceremony of people even say that this is also called: \"incest\", because the husband becomes a son. If you are not out of the ordinary people\'s daily life will certainly hear similar civil claims. No surprise, in investigation of the author, there are 70% there\'s husband had never kissed his wife\'s breasts. In fact, in addition to groin, nipple is a female surface the most sensitive parts of the body. About one-third of women is only due to the stimulation of the nipples are adequately, you can have full sexual excitement until they reach orgasm. The husbands of those taken for granted, lost is the happy couple sex harmony; swap to be superstitious and indifference.


  
Normal also cannot be taken out of context


In recent years, knowledge of books, articles, but many couples have not yet learned how to filter and differential, and there have been mistakes of new: from the superstition \"old man\" to follow \"type of India\". For example say that many men are concerned about their penis is not enough to grow up, is too much sex is too little, and so on. That it is looking for a book to see it. They just love to see literature describing, from West village life line to \"selected case studies\", resulting in all sorts of errors repeated argument like a rumor spreading around. Some unmarried men, any possibility of not even have sex, but wanted to commit suicide because they suspect that their penis is too small. Some wives to find a doctor, said her husband is a novel written in the kind of \"sexual desire\". They only ask couples sex number is lower than the normal average of (this is not normal), doctors told his wife, the wife and tell her husband, did not expect the husband came running, not to let doctors give him treatment \"indifference\".


Just 10 years, through various means, have got a lot of new words, more than the past thousands of years. But we really understand and some of it?, each spread a new vocabulary, there is always a large number of people under it to doubt that they are \"abnormal\", more people are using it to someone else is suspected to \"abnormal\". 1985, first nature medical book published Hou, on constantly was context, to own diagnosis for \"sexual obstacles\", and society seems to are to voluntary single of men and women diagnosis for \"sexual metamorphosis\" has, then back on mouth stimulation of vocabulary (even video) spread open has, so part people firm to think: who such do of people are is does not normal, and another part people is firm to think: does not such do of talent is does not normal. Now, and spread open \"gay\" the word, so some people openly claimed: the liberation, this ugly phenomenon has been eradicated; and the others were all suspected to be same-sex friendship between \"gay\".


A poet wrote: if I have a table, I can see it is now several points, if I have 10 tables, I cannot know what it is now several points. If I had 100 tables, I had to think about: what is time? knowledge too, face a wide range of newspapers, our first approach is to see more of, and controlled look. Find where there are conflicting, so would rather do not believe, do not listen to only one side. The second approach is preliminary screening,. See what the article says things have under. If the only \"article a copy in the world\", it does not look as good.

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