Parenting outstanding baby 4 policy

Human intelligence is a coordinating role in a complex manner, multiple intelligence theory that way for everyone to enrich their unique talents, each baby has its own strengths and weaknesses, so as long as the development done right, they are an aspect of doing very well.

4 prerequisite for raising well baby

1, give the baby a positive frame of mind

Psychologist Dale camegie the Guidebook warned us of the success of science, difference between successful and unsuccessful only a Word. Winners are positive, not successful mind negative. A positive frame of mind will have a positive action, overcoming the courage and perseverance and self-confidence, finally to be successful; negative mentality of people, their behavior is certainly negative, tend to lack self-confidence and overcoming courage and perseverance, easy retreat in face of difficulties are, complaining, naturally it is difficult to succeed. Therefore, to raise a successful baby, parent first to give the baby a good positive attitude.

2, next to the baby properly positioning

Success have different interpretations, but I think that success does not necessarily have to be the inventor of the spaceship, not necessarily to be a winner of the Nobel Prize, such a winner after all, is one of the few. The saying goes, line the very best. If a person is poor learning abilities, but he likes to cook and eventually became Super chef, this did not succeed? Successful road qianwantiao, therefore, as parents, we didn\'t have to make sure all the baby were huddled on the same difficult path, but should be based on the baby\'s intelligence structure characteristics, provide more opportunities for the baby to do their thing of interest, rather than in accordance with the wishes of the parents baby wishful constraints. Baby a happy childhood, so he really be his own, his future will be more happy and successful.

3, with a healthy psychological groundwork

To make a baby successfully, in addition to note mental structure, but also pay attention to the psychological development of the baby. Mental health is a guarantee of success. Psychology is the function of the brain, is an objective reality of the response, under the influence of human psychology is in the outside world, through the activity of the brain. Psychological process including cognitive process--intelligence factors (IQ), emotion, will and behavior of non-intelligence factors (emotional intelligence), and so on.

Health Psychology is best developed when young. 1995 United States Harvard University psychologist Daniel Goleman points out that \"emotional intelligence\" is the individual most of survivability, is a kind of emotional potential excavation, using emotion influence all aspects of life and life\'s key quality elements for the future, was acquired habit of human communication. It formed in the infant stage, stage of maturation in children, adolescents. High EQ stressed the unity of theory and practice, unity of sense and sensibility, the overall unity of thinking and dialectical thinking.

4 EQ, IQ is not discriminatory

Comparison of the IQ and EQ, IQ is the Foundation, EQ is guaranteed. To baby from a focus on cultivating non-intelligence factors of (EQ) is more important. Training ability of baby, ability for independent thinking and creative thinking, does not follow the trend of the crowd, have their own characteristics, train baby social skills and the ability to adapt to society, and so on will have a very important influence on the future of baby. Aharlis Schwab has said: \"ten baby has nine due to communication and smart. \"Let baby experience the joy of success and experience learned in frustration. Baby I believe a high EQ, IQ is not bad, and we in the parenting process, often biased intelligence factors training and neglect the development of non-intelligence factors.

Parenting outstanding baby 4 policy

1, according to the characteristics of baby aptitudes

Human intelligence is the coordinating role in a complex way, multiple intelligence theory that way for everyone to enrich their unique talents, everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, seven intelligent all-round development of man is a very small number. Therefore, from this point, every baby is a potential of individuals, and only awareness and understanding of intelligence structure characteristics of baby to find baby where there is a talent or potential, to suit your baby characteristics of education and training, in accordance with their aptitude in order to maximize the potential of mining baby, raising a baby successfully.

2, the potential of the discovery and mining of precious in life

Parents can take place in everyday life to baby observation, through observation about the baby\'s uniqueness. Such as baby like drawing since childhood, when he was just doodling, and what you can see he crows like a James, what are the characteristics, has a talent for painting. So that you can seize the opportunity to create the conditions in accordance with the characteristics of baby take the individual education plan to train baby. If baby does has painting of talent, that on created conditions let baby in painting in the experience success of joy, and not non-forced with baby learn some parents think good of 4 General; if baby just like mess coated mess painting, but on painting lack feeling force, that let he mess coated mess painting good has, not non-forced with baby in accordance with the adults of requirements behave to learn painting. Baby, what kind of talent, create conditions were good in this regard by baby development well, why not to baby comprehensive development?

3, give baby set reasonable goals

To the baby not to raise expectations too high, has seen the baby after a certain effort can achieve good. If people feel that their baby is a more comprehensive, have the potential to become a dragon into a Phoenix, it may be with Jackie CHAN as a baby Phoenix standards to require, let him reach higher goals if found in the implementation process, the target for baby, too much stress, it may not achieve the desired purpose, then adjust education programmes as soon as possible, avoid harm the baby. I advocate education on baby should be \"let nature take its course, a little guidance, never pull up seedlings to help them grow. ”

4, let the baby a little progress every day

Parents do not take the baby with the weaknesses of other people\'s strengths

Than, the enthusiasm of this will virtually give up the baby, upset baby confidence. Smarter than to take the baby and the parents of his own, taking baby than today and yesterday, as long as there is progress, even if it is a little bit, but would also like to commend and encourage timely, so as to help baby to establish confidence, let him maintain a pleasant mood and positive attitude. The positive frame of mind, can have positive action. Some scholars warned us \"precious things grow slowly. \"Therefore, just try, try, try, never give up, you will be successful.

Parents experience: I want to talk to adults

\"Dreams of children is based on reality and close to the dream, and diverse. \"Then a long time I have been convinced that the judgment but some time ago to 2 and a half daughter the two observation records of my child\'s dream and a new understanding. I believe that children not only the dream of many short, there are always accompanied by the growth process of dreams.

Case 1

Daughter in bed, I sat at the bedside, we pulled one person to one edge of the book, I read the story, her page--this is told the story to her daughter at a time when we are most used gestures. But this day daughter changed her habits, and insisted on sitting in bed like me, than in bed. At first, I was just reading this behavior did not care about her. Until the daughter Yang splendid small face at his feet told me: \"mother, look! Look! I can see! \"I found, the original daughter\'s leg has grown long enough, when people sit in bed, two tiny feet as suspended above the ground not once, but you can have direct contact with the ground! This \"huge\" let her excitement and pride: \"I can! As well as adults! ”

Case 2

Help at a time when daughters wear trousers, I always make her into a leg kutong and then put another, but the day his daughter refused to my practice. Tile she put pants on the bed, and then hands hold trousers waist, kutong two legs at the same time to stretch. Not comfortable because, she always wears his legs in the same kutong, but she must adhere to me for help. Red with daughters face holding back, again and again to go wrong \"door\" leg out, even annoyed with her clumsy chubby hands under a few feet of the error. Finally, settled in two legs on where they should stay, daughter relieved, hold my hand stand up from the bed, referred from the knees waist pants, says: \"is this! I, like the adults! ”

\"As with adults\", whenever I can to be quiet when thinking, couldn\'t help thinking of her daughter\'s words, together with the action and look as she spoke. Turn, I and memories up many similar of behavior, such as she in 11 months large of when because must to like I as with Cup drink and refused with bottle; just will walk of when on like she father as to hand into pants pocket in; total wanted to sat in large Chair Shang dinner, until found is enough does not to table only does not reluctant to returned to own of small chair up; a has may on run to study, in computer keyboard Shang fast beat, and also from time to time mobile several Xia mouse; took up phone mess by these cities and placed in ear said some \"Hello\" \"can\" like words (has two times actually for the I made has each other see does not understand of SMS) sth sth

For these behavior, I has been are is in accordance with the textbooks Shang said of as, to they as is children on adults of imitation, and is observation learning to understanding of (occasionally also will in incurred trouble of when such as computer file was changes or delete to they qualitative for \"trouble\"), but daughter repeatedly reading about of \"and adults as\" is to has I a new of perspective: children these or \"imitation\" or \"trouble\" of behavior distinct is in shows we, children has a lasting and firmly of dream--that is grew adults! As well as adults! Life of nature features is growth, human difference Yu other creatures of highlight of Department is on environment and itself of control; young of children due to its in physiological and psychological, and self-care ability and social experience aspects are is development among, in many when without adult of care; adult of care while is children security health growth of guarantee, on the also for children of behavior established has many of limit, \"you also small, you cannot sth sth\" \", you grew up has, you on can sth sth\" similar of discourse and weekdays in cumulative up of on adult authority of respect, let children on \"grew up\" full has unlimited of looks forward to, that Dang they once found own can like adults as do a pieces own yiqian do does not to of things, on will was very excited, warm to greets you to see, and to concern they each a \"and adults as\" of behavior. More key of is because own is adults, in children seems very of things in parents of eye in and nothing great of, dang children shout and wrangle to report with they of \"achievements\" of when, parents is difficult to experience, and share children of that a copies joy and meet does not is, even some when because busy own of things and just simple to perfunctory a sentence \"good\" on to eyes steering elsewhere. To be honest, this is perhaps understandable from the perspective of parents, but are not ideal for children to respond to, not only to allow parents to see their growing up, and progress and looking forward to getting the recognition they sincerely, because that is what they are enthusiastic to dream about the things of sth

Thought here, I realized that they should examine how their daughter\'s education act--after the baseline is assured of the safety, health, helps daughter achievements during her dream, her development of scaffolding, mothers should be more critical duties.

Parents experience: my parents and decompression

In daily life, many children live with their parents often regular sense of pressure and anxiety, grief, fear, anger and other emotions. In this case, the parents do? Best way is to vacuum the child.

One of the parents and decompression call nice name

Home has a pair of twin sons, first born son I often call her \"great treasure\", and small, of course, is \"little treasure\". Regardless of the morning, or call us for dinner, with a nice voice called nice name, children of pressure naturally small. Who knows, when even the name carried the family name was called at that time, it is a time of trouble or suffer.

Parenting decompression method II: using music to replace calls

Wake up children in music in the morning rather than call up my mother shout and wrangle, pressure must be much smaller. If fine music before going to bed, a good start but a day. Timer is an easy to use tool, who does not like to suddenly be interrupted, telling children, after 5 minutes take a bath, fine timer, you won\'t have to bargain at that time, if the child can decide how long playing computer games, time to, they will be more easily observed.

Three of the parent-child decompression: time of quantity and quality are important

Concepts of the world, is family time quality matters more than quantity, is also called quality time: how long is the care and child together time and care about what to do with him.

In fact, this is a plausible theory.

United States of the tube and teach author Dr Dawson cites an example: there is a man to eat steak, for a long time, extremely hungry, finally waiters served a small piece of steak. \"Why so small? \"\" This is the most wonderful steaks. \"\" But I have enough to eat. ”

Children need good quality food, but fixed, a sufficient number of meals is more important. We can\'t all day at home, and give children 10 minutes of quality time, think he will meet. Quality time is when he excitedly school, you were there to hear him speak in high spirits; quality time, when is he depressed home, where are you listening, comforting, encouraging. If you miss, when we have time, and asked him \"how well today? \"He would only say\" Fortunately \".

We have several years to implement a \"tradition\", that children \"separate appointments\". Child one day belong to his special day every 3 months, and the father or mother to do something of their choice. Boss and father to the Confucius Temple, for example, eat, and then chess; the second platform and I bought a ticket, see the train at the station, he would not care to say, \"to see the column, Oriental, a list of red flags, you go! \"Although there are two children, we want them to feel that they are in the eyes of parents\" invisible jiaoer \". These are the real parents of quality time. \"Quantity\" accumulated is very important, occasionally a meal of steak, not a substitute for three meals a day.

Parenting decompression method four: listen, often hold

One educator said, to hug your children 4 times a day. I try to remind ourselves that when children listen or watch their eyes. Often, at this dedicated time, heart filled love for them, would naturally hold them. Hug, Kiss, praise, encourage, these never too much. When a child love trough when filled, he would only reveal love, rather than be a disgruntled child.

United States former President George Bush\'s wife, in Wesleyan Women\'s College graduation ceremony: \"wait for you at my age, would not lose a deal or less regret a customer, but if you do not have to spend time in her husband\'s children, you will regret. ”

Children, if usually not embracing habits, can also be patted shoulders, gently pinch pinch his arm. The best idea is to keep some intimate way, say to yourself, I would like to continue to do, because it is not so, suddenly, son than I have, not that I hold him, he bent to take up inferior jobs is me on the shoulder.

Think of a story.

A mother in the child\'s room, said: \"I have a lot of words to tell you, I\'m sorry, I\'ve been so busy. \"She has been saying, sorry, finally, the children put away suitcase:\" MOM, why say what I had to go to University tomorrow. \"Child in the US only about 18 years, take the opportunity to hug him.

Parent-child decompression v: let go

In fact, I learned the most difficult and most useful homework is: let it go! Let go!

Family pressures, in fact, whatever the pressure between the interpersonal, most expect-related. Inappropriate expectations create pressure to pull up seedlings to help them grow, against their fatal embrace. Proper expectations, people prosper, would bloom the flowers. We parents can only accompany them, observing their strengths to encourage, support, expected to lay down their own, so both can enjoy each other\'s relationship. I told myself, never on the child\'s homework, talent makes everyone cry crying. Children play the setbacks at a time, I said learn well, every time he immediately said, no, I still want to learn. As the child hour, I often say, eat stop eat, but no children to worry about at the dinner. Child wise very, cares where you matter, even if you don\'t speak up, he knew, and in that case, and against you, the more you let go, the more he knows not a threat, only you can learn responsible. When the children have a force from the inside, when the willingness, intangible is getting between parents do not need to exert pressure.

Parents sitting down and talking to children

A return trip the old teacher, said when speaking in Australia in: Australia squatting for parents and children left a very deep impression on me. See this scenario for the first time, was at a friend\'s House. One weekend, they had a young couple and the children to dinner, when the two year old child were filled, when you want to go under, the parents sitting down talking to children. At that time, he was surprised, thinking that it was her unique form of education and not ask. Another weekend, when a Secretary of the school mate pedicle I live to her home, to spend two days on weekends, I see this moving scene over and over again.

Mate pedicles with a pair of lovely children, when we are going to the supermarket, four-year old son was unhappy because of sister to get in the car. Mate pedicle in door of squat, two hand living son hands, back to back, face to face, eye face up to the child, sincerely say \"Luo Aimu, who to get in the car is not important, right? \"Luo aim land looking mother knowing nodded, got into the car and sat down next to her sister.

The next morning, we and our children to the Park, Luo Aimu and sister living, when the ducks to the Lake to see playing, tripped accidentally, tears in his eyes rolling in, to flow out in a minute. At this point, mate pedicle and naturally squat down, kindly son said: \"you have is not a small baby, do you? You\'re a big boy, stumbles that\'s OK, right? \"At this point, I also learn aside squatting down and faced Luo Aimu said:\" Yes, you\'re a big boy, right? \"The child was at once admitted in tears, were proud to play.

At this point, I can\'t help with the mate pedicle talked to their children\'s education. She said: \"when I was young, my parents was that talking with us. We believe that children are human beings, is also independent of the person, only because they are shorter than us, we should talk squatting down with them sth \"

Australia or what others think of the mother: parents sitting down and talking with children on the same height, talking to each other with the children back to back, face to face, eye, embodies the parents respect for children, things that embody the adult children or problem serious and cordial manner. At the same time, parents can whisper to patient persuasion and education, instead of from top to bottom, but don\'t have to loudly berate.

Use this form of education, will enable the children realise with the adults were equal, respected person, is conducive to training children independent of self-esteem personality childhood; using this form of education can help children to take their problems seriously disadvantage or; it also created a receptive to the good mood of education for children, rather than make children deaf ear or psychology.

I think this is a very specific education method, embodiment of the relationship between the parents about their children\'s education idea and also from one side reflects the child\'s capacity and level of education.

If we always stood facing a child, we distance the child, not only is the height of dozens of centimeters, but the distances between the generation and generation, is a heart with no communication between a heart distance. Squatting down, listen, on children, is a great of concern and understanding, is children to accept of a care; squatting down, listen, children away from we of distance on will shortened; squatting down, listen, is we concern children inside world of a way; squatting down, listen, create out of is a democratic, and harmonious of mutual respect of adult and children of relationship, then no than this more important of thing has.

Please help the children find a good friend

The saying goes: depend on parents at home, out of the House by friends. Could make some good friends, are helpful to children\'s learning and growth. In the psychological consultation, often parents talking about their children\'s personality will be isolated and a poor talker, difficulties will not turn to others, rather than active exchange with others, even with others meet a red, nervous. These kids have different degrees of dating disorders.

So, how can parents do to help their children make some good friends? In fact, the children\'s friend was almost a nature does not need to completely replace the child of parents, only need to correctly boot to. Specifically speaking, parents should be aware of the following aspects.

1. to teach children the independent way of life: this is the most important point. Is best developed when young children of parents living independently and independent thinking and problem-solving skills. If a child from childhood dependence on the parents, then also get used to the teachers, students and their friends, do not own.

2. should pay attention to small children generous, gregarious, outgoing personality, parents should pay attention to the children of these qualities.

3. respect for the child and the child\'s friends: every child hope in front of your friends a little \"face\". Parents should meet this simple wish children, please try not to short of children\'s friends before opening them. Some parents intent are good, want to educate their children in front of other children to make him \"a little ambitious pressure\", everyone knows if this persists, it is a child in front of your friends not lift your head, gradually inferiority, self closed character.

4. not too much demanding: many parents hear their children make friends will certainly ask: \"so (referring to children\'s friends) you learn? Is the class do? \"And so on, if the child\'s friends are not the so-called\" good student \",\" good boy \". Parents: \"such a friend to what! \"In fact, parents are caught in a real all-rounder omnipotent child misconceptions--is not, if simply pursuing child must reach all very good friends must be realistic. Moreover, children are intended to make friends and play with children of the same age, just like people are good friends, but also to make your life more fun. Parents intentionally asking a child can only be \"better than his\" friend, which is to let children develop large people practices of snobbery, and makes the children experience the fun of friends was not originally.

5. actively found children of friends of advantages: no that parents hope own of children xuehuai of, but for \"good\" of meaning, many parents is just one-sided to think \"learning good, has courtesy\",, actually, \"good\" has many of aspects, such as Ken suffer, and ready to help people, and eloquence good, and imagination rich,, actually are is own of children by need training of skills, key see parents how to boot own of children, parents should actively to found children and he of friends between of differences, and guidance children learning he of friends of advantages.

6. do not excessive interference in the child\'s freedom to make friends, this is the aspiration of every child. Please give the children a little time and space, can let their children downstairs and friends a good play on the lawn for a while. Don\'t see your children on the ground floor \"mad running\" put his homework, not a child and female classmate when school walk shoulder to shoulder so much of tension, not to let the children should have happy childhood memories they will dare to nightmare of sth

Children make friends, learn from their parents, practicing in childhood but enjoying life, from childhood, parents can help their children develop a good social good habits, future children could benefit life; if a child within has been lonely and dependence on parents, selfishness, indifference to people, to work in the future, its drawbacks will affect the future of children in all areas. And then the price of lust for life, why not take advantage of the attention to the children\'s character now?

7 practices for respecting the baby emotion

1. selection of the wishes of the child, respect for babies

Many parents have recognized that in deciding whether to let the baby when learning talent, as well as what kind of talent, to respect the choice of baby. According to the investigation of the parent-child, 68.8% MOM and dad believes that baby want to learn their choice of talent, because of inherent interest is the power of learning.

Step 1 when the baby is not yet time to learn about the various art activities, do not directly asked whether he wanted to learn.

If you are not sure whether the baby is willing to learn, and only you-on impulse-see colleagues reported interest in the child class, immediately asked the baby \"do you want to learn to paint? \"\" Do you want to learn the piano? \"Children and effect your mood easily baby around, he would say that want to learn. You need to provide your baby with a variety of talent perceptual knowledge and experience to watch his wishes. For example, it is free zone activities of him some talent, interest classes, describes what they are doing to him. If friends have children attending schools talent, you can take the baby to his home to play, and enjoy other people\'s talent works, try to play a play, as in touch on the piano, ballistic missile.

And baby talk to separate skills

Time to talk, first helps babies remember all he saw art activities.

For example, \"last Sunday, baby saw what teacher Wang with children playing in the children\'s Palace? \"\" Yesterday, we play in the monthly home to what? \"When baby 1.1 point recalled he met art activities, then asked him what fun, interesting. If he says more interested in the art activities, be sure to ask clear reasons, to determine if he was interested in art activities itself.

When determining the baby does for certain activities after the favourite, you try to use the baby understand language told him to learn the skills needed to pay the price, such as the piano every day keep practising. You can reference the baby know examples of children explained to him, although he does not fully understand the costs, but still want to say. This number can help the baby to decide whether he is to learn this art. If he wants to learn, and when the break in the future, just to remind you before he talked, gradually develop decided to have a sense of his own.

After many conversations, if you feel your baby what kind of talent and not particularly interested in, then don\'t because their urgent heart, let him to go to the select a class. You must relax the heart, because the baby is not talent, he will have more time to enjoy other free play activities, and the intellectual and emotional development is resulting in the game. If the baby wants to learn a lot of talent, you have to tell him you can select only one of them. You like him of the benefits and costs of art activities are explained again, let him choose. Once you have decided, establish agreements with him, such as how long, how long does it take to practice every day, and so on.

2. interest in baby care and training in the first

If you decide to let baby talent and identified learning project, purpose of training talent, you have to be very clear: to respect and protect the baby\'s interest in art, through the process of learning made him more love this talent.

Development of preschool children are not mature, attention cannot be focused for a long time, easily distracted, finger muscle development does not fully mature, and so on, and talent and learning has a lot of skill and attention to health requirements, so baby in skills may not meet the requirements. In addition, preschool is a baby during the rapid development of intrinsic interest, they are curious and love to many new things, these seeds of interest if you get good care, babies can get a lot of fun, even becomes the driving force of his future career and life. So you will not haggle on the talent training in skills requirements and would kill him valuable intrinsic interest. Natural intrinsic interest, once lost, it\'s hard to make up for.

You need to select a talent of importance to the protection and interest in training baby teacher or teaching talent. Professional standards of teachers is important, but the teacher\'s teaching approach and whether it can protect your baby\'s interest is more important. If teaching ignores the baby feel, baby began to appear are not even interested in straw, you need to communicate with the teacher. In the case of a last resort, would rather see the baby stops this talent and class.

3. look baby mood changes in the learning process

When the baby for talent and learning, you need to observe the baby\'s emotional, after each lesson exercises before you go to class and what are the emotional changes, and not just concerned about his learning content.

Many parents have this experience: baby at first always enjoy going, then slowly cooling. Therefore, when you find baby appear reluctant to learn when, consider what factors affect his enthusiasm to learn. Is practice time after class is too long? Exercise which requires more frequent rest periods? Course remained at the level he acquired that became boring? Or is it because he does not meet the requirements, no sense of accomplishment and a time to lose interest? Special event had hit confidence in the baby? Baby talk to the teacher of his classes, gradually find out, make timely adjustments to avoid his interests completely lost.

4. free time and study with baby

And the baby alone time is very valuable. MOM and dad to be bent, as large as a baby and kids, learning, practice with baby. And you learn, will let the baby but also enjoy the learning process.

Whether you are proficient in all you want to start from scratch, and baby synchronous learning. Not being taught role, humble attitude along with the baby to learn, even to the baby ask for advice he learned every day, and he is doing the same work, discuss with him how can do better.

And babies learn the most common problems are: MOM and dad always like the finger next to point. Pointing too many babies are confused, distracted, tired of learning. If you treasure and

Po learning process with recorded, you will be surprised to find himself from beginning to end is constantly talking, release the baby cannot understand, accept instructions. In fact, how do you like to be patient, often to shut up and keep quiet. Even if the baby is doing wrong, he corrected himself, he will have more active study harder, otherwise too much of the blame, he will feel terrible. Less pointing and criticism, baby will feel that they are trusted by parents, he is capable.

5. do not take the baby with someone than

MOM and dad often learn motive power in order to make the baby more, a common trick of Chinese parents to motivate him-took the baby to learn to be a good comparison of children, this will let the baby be pressure.

For instance on the baby said, \"you see xiaoqiang now will play a full piece, you quickly catch up with him\", \"Lily\'s brush is neatly written, why are you still writing crooked? \"Over time, some babies will avoid learning; combative heart strong baby will focus on the competition with others, in no mood to enjoy happiness of learning and talent, will eventually lose interest in the art itself.

6. let baby from in their efforts to find a sense of achievement

Learning skills is often a process of continuous exercise, test of the baby\'s insistence. If you want the baby keep practising talent, MOM and dad need to adhere to the time to note the efforts made by the baby, constant feedback for his efforts, help him from every last bit of efforts to find and give a sense of achievement.

For example, together with the baby, his calligraphy, art paintings, hanging in the House decoration. Regardless of the level of the work, as long as the baby the effort can be. When babies learn new words, new painting, must be kept up to date on the wall of the old works. Made character sets, collected old album, gift for friends and family. If the baby is learning piano, you can record music he played, when you do the housework or chat the break with my family, do the background music. Babies will feel his effort is successful, and joy unlimited for your family.

Parents experience: my son when students

Son had four grades, I learned from the teacher, son weak, this can be good. I had an exchange of views with their teachers, learned that his son\'s trouble is not the General Assembly an attendance. How does not hear the law? I would like to know the details. Think of this and that, only when back for my son \"classmates\" to find out where the problem lies.

Of course, I can\'t really run to affect the normal teaching in the school. I made a circuitous tactics-and Cambridge young learners \' English class teachers explain the seriousness of the situation, hoping to listen to half day course with son. English teacher to special support told me, he also found his son classes there. So, I entered the classroom with son, sitting at his side.

That afternoon when talking about now. I note that the teacher teaches while quietly observe the son. I find that students in the class is required to read and write project son was to concentrate on, when the teacher told separately, he is not as focused. After school, I told him the day\'s lessons for questioning, some simple examples in the book, basic grasp; another sentence, is a little vague, nothing else, does not listen on the external training less. I pulled out my class of grammar notes for my son, son was amazed: \"school, how do you remember so much? \"I told him:\" to listen in class, the teacher what is focus of, what is regular General thing, listen carefully. Of course, to do this, it is best to prepare before, for he knows not where an idea that classes can be targeted. \"I told my son, mother unit also engaged in tutoring, mother learned things like primary school math, English, almost forgot, are available for you to help me!

Under this, son feel that have the responsibility to help my mother, had begun to seriously listen. I do, every day \"consult\", and son felt really well, or can\'t for MOM as a teacher.

Now, a year later, son already understand, mother says tutorial lessons in primary schools is just a ploy. Often great pride in his son but said to me: \"don\'t teach me, you would still be when my classmates and students. ”

I think the relationship between parents and children are mutually reinforcing, as the ancients said, and learning. Parents if you can use a variety of ways, understanding your child\'s weaknesses, to help him corrected in a timely manner, it is a step towards the standards of qualified parents.

Kangaroo care method: close to the parents of premature infants chest

Colombia scientists in the latest issue of the United Kingdom Journal of Medicine published an article called, some developing countries has been taking care of premature infants \"Kangaroo care method\" worthy of promotion in the world.

Approximately 20 million premature birth in the world, hospitals in developed countries at the time of taking care of these babies cannot itself regulate body temperature, how are they placed in the infant incubator. However, 1978 Colombia newborn surge of doctors in the country and therefore invented a new method of insulation for preterm infants, that mimics the way of the Kangaroo mother care. In the implementation of this \"Kangaroo care method\" Shi, neonatal preterm infants 24 hours throughout the day with a mother or father \"intimate\". Wearing only a \"urine is not wet\", close to the parents of infants wearing a little hat bare chest and fixed with special harnesses or old clothes to the children.

Colombia haweiliyana University researchers pointed out that in the article, in General, ended after other medical treatment in preterm infants, parents can start this \"skin on skin\" parenting methods. Typically, the accepted birth in preterm infants after 9 months of this approach will be able to regulate body temperature. Research shows that the \"Kangaroo care method\" as safe and effective as the infant incubator. This method can also increase the proportion of breast feeding in preterm infants, reduce the chance of infection and strengthen family ties between parents and children. At present, this approach has been promoting in 25 developing countries. Researchers urged developed countries to implement this in the article natural method of effective parenting.

United Kingdom comments neonatal experts nier·maluo, University of Nottingham said, \"Kangaroo care method\" to consolidate family ties between parents and children, and can improve the effect of breastfeeding and shorten hospital stay. In an interview with New Scientist magazine, he said, \"this approach can eliminate the fear of preterm infants to mother, you can make the mother-child develop a healthy relationship.\"

Savvy Mommy koumen tips

House prices rising quickly, also follow, baby need to give a good living environment, parents cannot evade the responsibility of maintenance, savvy mommy to learn calculation, to arrange for good family life, \"digging out\", is very practical.

From the \"one family not hungry filled\", to consider a family\'s future now; know fun, that you want to buy a House, to raising children, to investment, to charge sth Savvy Mommy, mark of maturity is from: \"will only spend money\" to \"learn how to better spend.\"

Therefore, we must learn to \"koumen\".

\"Koumen\" fashion

Koumen number: DIY fun and save money

Koumen Mummy: Cui Meiqi stylist 32

Income: monthly income of $ 5,000

Koumen event

Stylist\'s identity to make her clothes have a higher grade. Mei Qi said: I can make famous brand. For example, two days before, she was Chinese and a classical frieze of VERO MODA set, it will print a picture from the Internet in our everyday work, get to the measure to get material, DIY. Costs well, just about material cost hundreds of dollars, if it is finished, thousands of dollars more than.

Her husband\'s suit was old, you can design and renovation, doing a fancy new clothes for her daughter.

Daughter wearing old pants and converted into a bag. These DIY and personality and fashion clothing and accessories, often praised by friends.

Koumen income

Designer clothes thousands of dollars a piece, each province about 800 million, according to the quarterly added 2, save $ 6,400 a year. Baby clothing hundred a meter, $ 100 in each province, each quarter 2, year savings of $ 800. Clothing only a savings of $ 7,200 a year, a very substantial.

Koumen experience

1, have time tidy wardrobe, his clothes a pretty good idea, and according to match different tone and style as well, so that it will not occur in a similar repeat of spending money on clothes.

2, buying large quantities of cheap clothing may not save money. Several neutral color, tailored fit, simple and generous brand-name suits are not province, course discount when you buy more cost effective, high utilization rate of clothes are worth buying. Silk scarves and other accessories you can purchase some more, they can make your original dress gives off a different flavor.

3, in terms of beauty, internal adjustment and always important than any external use of expensive cosmetics, tonic foods for so there is more affordable.

Distribution of paragraph 4, the attention of monthly purchase clothing: one-third classic style, one-third season epidemic, one-third small goods, so that both can upscale establishments also reflect your style.

\"Koumen\" meaningful

Koumen number: saving resources, benefits the self-

Koumen Mummy: Yan Yan company Manager 32

Income: monthly income of around $ 10,000

Koumen event

Saving Office paper, starting from their own, driving company-wide employee. Print on both sides, files of paper, cannot throw, you can continue to use the other side, as a pad; or take home to baby to graffiti. Paper is the source of wood pulp, saving paper is environmental actions. Save both the company\'s expenditure and benefit the country.

Koumen income

Every piece of paper on both sides, a packet of paper equivalent to two packages of paper, paper consumption in half for the whole year, the company on a one-year paper 200 package, you can save 100 package, $ 8,000. Can also hold on to a tree for the country.

Koumen experience

1, the day a restaurant aunt might as well spend money to hire a Cook, and then themselves with noon meals to the company.

2, and from a taxi than to take the subway, take the subway than ride a bike, if conditions allow, can walk within initial costs $ 10.

3, adhere to the Community consumption, such as carpool, dinner, spell cards.

4, visit the Department store remembers when the right is the best, to remain sober-minded in a promotion girl warm praise. See favorite clothes don\'t be too quick to pay, then stroll around, OK no more enjoyable to buy until.

\"Koumen\" obvious wisdom

Koumen number: only for required features pay

Koumen Mummy: Li Xiaoying international school 32 years old

Income: monthly income of around $ 15,000

Koumen event

Her tips for purchasing goods is: without one, on the \"lag\" principle, that is, the new product technology maturity, quality improves, prices are down, consumption is both affordable and rest assured that at this time, price/performance is the highest. Her other money-saving trick is: mobile phones, computer upgrading this extremely fast on the consumption of goods, only has the basic functions of the style, not innovation, blind replaced.

Koumen income

Purchased by each household appliances up to 15 months, the prices 10~20%, then on the appliance of this consumption, you can save $ 300 per cent.

Koumen experience

1, install time meter, after 10 o\'clock in the evening schedule part of the power project, such as using electric water heater insulation water after each 10 o\'clock in the evening, holding 24 hours, ensuring that the next morning there is hot water on the instructions of, electricity can save half.

2, household electrical appliances do not have to follow the trend of consuming new, on the \"delayed\" 15 months to purchase \"principles\".

3, LV, PRADA and beautiful, cameras mega pixel advanced again, just to improve the face

Not the quality of life, spending money there is a fool.

4, before going to the supermarket purchases, in the first count of commodity reserves, listed on the shopping list to buy goods and in case of discounts they can buy goods, so as not to see discounts on exciting and bought back a lot of things usually don\'t have. Pay attention to food shelf life, buying too much too late to eat expired was wasted.

Baby Hugs four attention

Embrace mother released an irreplaceable vectors of the mother and babies feel the wonderful world, shower mother love, obtain mental development needs. In addition, the findings of a study abroad, embracing also promotes the body\'s immune system, lower blood pressure, heart rate, ease the nerves of the people, neither the mother nor the baby, embrace the positive effects are obvious.

However, only how to embrace science reasonable?

First time embracing the baby: baby birth within 2 hours, feel the touch of mother hugs and caresses, skin on skin, this is the first step in a lifelong attachment relationship of mother. Mother put the baby in her arms, so that he can hear MOM heartbeat, smell her mother\'s taste, and accompanied by the call of mother baby friendly, sufficient to keep baby safe and relaxed.

Intimate support the baby\'s head: little neck of newborns is not born to stand, when a mother holding a baby, make sure has relied on his head. Gently into the cubital Fossa in the small head, small arms and hand hold the children back and waist, with the other hand hold up small butt, hold hold transverse or oblique posture, making his waist and neck on a plane.

Vertical hold for only a short time: baby smaller, shorter vertical hold time. Method is a hand hold his hips and waist and back, head and neck of the other hand to hold the baby or let him down in his mother\'s shoulder, the first control in two or three minutes, otherwise the baby will be overwhelmed.

Don\'t shake the weak baby: baby brain myelin not be equal protection of the head, holding baby shaking can cause head capillary rupture, or even death. So even if you shake the baby should be very tender.

Parents of wisdom wise discipline methods

Parents of wisdom wise discipline methods

Do you often discipline children and helpless? Whether you are going to convince or yelling commands, children completely ignored. Ever, you get an education?

Children are naughty is normal, you do not want the child prematurely mature, polite like a adult.

But sometimes they cannot grasp the sense, for instance, he seized the children themselves by the hair, or will you need hiding, watching your fire or Liao and chuckling. Sensible mother they have anger when washed, simply punishing not approach, discipline requires appropriate manner, think, do what they did wrong.

Like most parents, we all hope that our discipline can give a child the next time when you do the same thing again, will it not, so it is not to do. Even more trust, because he knows is wrong to pull their hair and thread the needle, and not because he was afraid of offending mothers anger not to do. But most of the time, today we stop his bad behavior, seems to also want to block him tomorrow do worse there is no help. When can children learn?

Childcare expert pointed out that: children can learn to listen, to learn, but this process requires some method. We must teach them. This requires that we do take precautions, persistence, and to keep a cool head at any time. Following talks about the six secrets to be very effective. Although it cannot prevent a naughty children occasionally make mistakes, but it can help you use love and patience, the naughty and the book which you gave me child converted from the trouble with this role.

1, when it comes to

Childcare expert pointed out that: If representatives from 1 to 10 correct principle of educating children of important degree (the higher the number the more important), the word, and words can be expressed in 12lai!

Why do you want to do?

When it comes to doing less, deeds will turn children into speculation caused by campaigners. Because they know they can get away with, they are trying to do all we can do this. But when they knew what would you do, or make a mistake when what happens, they can predict that consequences of their choice, let them learn to control yourself.

How to do this?

When it comes to the most critical part is not in love, not to give in once and for all before. Summarizes the most important of your rules and consequences appear whenever they break these rules. Then, these were all told your child.

For many parents, control yourself not to criticize children is difficult, therefore, think twice before you speak, you use different tone and wording, effect difference will be very big. Like saying: I love you, but I cannot accept your behavior. That preliminary hearings very hard, but later, children would naturally know what you mean.

In other cases, you would expect as they must be explained to them. If you want to take them to visit the supermarket, told them not to tamper with and merchandise, and warned that if the consequences of the violation is.

When it comes to ask you to follow-up from beginning to end in the end, no loud threats.

Unpopular six mother

Canada child education experts, over more than 120, more than 2000 employees in kindergartens for children of all ages made a special survey, statistics show: there are 6 kinds of mothers not welcomed by the children.

Only think of Dad\'s mother

Despite the mother\'s love for children is a selfless, but with all the children love for mother may \"selfish ideas and personal considerations.\" You know, most young children are very sensitive, often regarded as his mother \"private property\", but not his people, even other than father \"share.\" In this case, the mother should be consciously manifestations, express or implied to the children, let him add \"mother did love him\" confident. At the same time should also be generous and distance itself from the mother and dad eye focus in order to make the baby more safe.

Not fun mother

Most of the children alive, like wide. This is their sense of curiosity and thirst for knowledge. They want to learn from their closest imitation mother there, a lot of things, to satisfy their natural curiosity and thirst for knowledge. They prefer and the mother have the same interests and hobbies. But if mother know nothing about children\'s hobbies and always deny all knowledge of an event, or even, children will feel disappointed and frustrated. Early child language ability also has a negative impact on culture and development. To this, parents may wish to consciously cultivate and children of the same or similar interests and are familiar with psychology and language specific to children, as far as possible to take more time and play with children. This way, children would naturally think that you \"fun\".

Too fat MOM

Children more than adults valued a person\'s appearance, his dearest mother nature is even more so. For their own health, but also to \"beautiful\" in the eyes of the children in their own image of obesity\'s mother would do well to pay attention to diet, exercise and weight loss, and due attention to their dress and personal adornment.

Too severe mother

Strict requirements are not bad, but everything there is a \"degree\". In fact, old mother that even that is not said most of them belong to the perfectionist. They criticized the \"asides\" are the children well, you haven\'t tried yet. Parent perfectionism is the maximum harm on the child psychological: gradually deprived of their confidence. You know, children need to be made to continuously on the psychological self-sure, to get the essential driving force. Especially for kids already more inferiority, to get rid of inferiority of shadow, and build up self-esteem and self-confidence, self-no doubt more important.

Lack of respect for my friend\'s mother

Child\'s heart has not yet been worldly contamination or bias, be much more transparent and clean than adults. As a child \"first teacher\", mother as a child into the society of the first guide, be sure to pay attention to your deeds in front of the children, you know, respect the child\'s friend itself means respect for the child.

Not when it comes to doing the mother

After all, \"says not to do\" \'s mother is the lack of good faith. Honest and trustworthy, is not only a recognized virtues, more of a valuable quality. Children receive or tangible or intangible \"education of honesty\", often starts when you learn to speak, and throughout childhood. Children just know better ought to help them set up in the heart \"in good faith\". \"Said to be not to\" mother, is precisely the negative example provided for the child, the negative effects!

Home How to layout the game environment

Family environment, including creating a learning environment for kids, living conditions and environment of the game. First two has now been the limelight of the parents, and the game environment is also not of general interest. Playing games is the nature of children, develop children\'s intellectual, the game is the best means. Only provide the right environment of the game, children to full play to the imagination and enrich the game content. Parents in the game environment can also be a variety of learning activities into one of the game with the children, entertaining way.

Parents how to use the existing arrangement of conditions for child game environment?

Housing spacious family for children provide an \"game room\", where the establishment of different game areas for children. For example, \"natural areas\" for the children on a cake, and planted with a broad bean, making a plant and animal specimens, let the child observation and simple knowledge and understanding of the plant\'s growth process; otherwise family area, construction area, dining area, intelligence, and so on, are starting to cultivate their solidarity and ability of spatial imagination, functions.

Housing of tight family may make a corner for children in the bedroom or the living room, separated by cloth or waste material arranged a special gaming environment for their children. Packaging large cardboard boxes of appliances available for children to build a House, dug a door open a few Windows, items needed when kids games on display in the room, around a small house allows children to beautify yourself. Or children in the small world of laying a carpet or cloth pad on, needs of the child according to the game, lie down, sit, kneel, all on the ground, avoid dirty clothes or cold children playing sick. Parents should also be provided for children and the collection of materials of the game, game content, enriching children\'s small world. At the same time, Church child finishing their small world in a timely manner, habit of cultivating his sense of responsibility and labor.

For children opened \"green prescription\"

Concluded a semester intensive learning, children temporarily from the long-term status of fast paced, high pressure release, even if usually energetic, healthy children, often with varying degrees of extremities in whole body fatigue, muscle aches, fatigue, mentally depressed and feel sad, can\'t afford interest on external things and even distracted State. This is actually a mental fatigue caused by the accumulation of adverse psychological effects.

Mental fatigue is a neurological, is a manifestation of the central nervous system dysfunction, is due to fatigue. There are many reasons raised, such as long-term monotone machinery of life, the spirit of continuing tension, living in polluted and noisy environments, and so on. Usually due to concentrated heavy learning, psychological reaction of this feeling less or not at all obvious, once when it is in a relaxed state of mind, neural dysfunction began, thus causing physical and psychological discomfort.

At this point, if out of the outdoor, nature\'s arms, blue sky, mountain, blue water, green grass have fun flying soul, relax the body, will receive good results. Contained in the fresh air on human health of very useful content of negative oxygen ions to city dozens of times higher, per cubic centimeter of air negative oxygen ions to nearly 20,000. Negative oxygen ion after inhalation human lungs, can improve the hematopoietic function and improve respiratory functions, increase of body volume of inhalation of oxygen and carbon dioxide emission. At the same time can also promote gastrointestinal digestion, enhance the body\'s metabolism, regulation of excitatory and inhibitory State of central nervous system, improve the physiological functions of cerebral cortex, is called the atmosphere of \"effects of longevity\". Inhalation of negative oxygen ion-rich air, makes one feel fresh and cool, relaxed, refreshing, rest in the Middle here, to let people have fun and enjoy fun with nature, restoring physical and mental fatigue as soon as possible, so as to improve one\'s physical quality and efficiency, while controlling a wide range of diseases. In addition, the field travel vent is also depressed, an effective means of regulating mood. Especially psychological fatigue of students, often is by long-term spirit height tension, and psychological pressure too large caused by, can using field tourism of time, to wilderness, and Bush, and forest, and hillside, and grassland, and beach, to, release throat, enjoy to shouted, let heart of worries, and anguish, and anxiety, and depression, with ROAR dispersed in nature, may can a solutions heart of depressed, catharsis inside of bad emotional.

Therefore, the parents taking holidays, for the children to open a \"green prescription\" let the children travel to the field, in the embrace of nature, get rid of the stale and take in the fresh, conditioning of yin and Yang, regulating body wash past tired, for intensive learning in future refueling charge.