Do you often discipline children and helpless? Whether you are going to convince or yelling commands, children completely ignored. Ever, you get an education?
Children are naughty is normal, you do not want the child prematurely mature, polite like a adult.
But sometimes they cannot grasp the sense, for instance, he seized the children themselves by the hair, or will you need hiding, watching your fire or Liao and chuckling. Sensible mother they have anger when washed, simply punishing not approach, discipline requires appropriate manner, think, do what they did wrong.
Like most parents, we all hope that our discipline can give a child the next time when you do the same thing again, will it not, so it is not to do. Even more trust, because he knows is wrong to pull their hair and thread the needle, and not because he was afraid of offending mothers anger not to do. But most of the time, today we stop his bad behavior, seems to also want to block him tomorrow do worse there is no help. When can children learn?
Childcare expert pointed out that: children can learn to listen, to learn, but this process requires some method. We must teach them. This requires that we do take precautions, persistence, and to keep a cool head at any time. Following talks about the six secrets to be very effective. Although it cannot prevent a naughty children occasionally make mistakes, but it can help you use love and patience, the naughty and the book which you gave me child converted from the trouble with this role.
1, when it comes to
Childcare expert pointed out that: If representatives from 1 to 10 correct principle of educating children of important degree (the higher the number the more important), the word, and words can be expressed in 12lai!
Why do you want to do?
When it comes to doing less, deeds will turn children into speculation caused by campaigners. Because they know they can get away with, they are trying to do all we can do this. But when they knew what would you do, or make a mistake when what happens, they can predict that consequences of their choice, let them learn to control yourself.
How to do this?
When it comes to the most critical part is not in love, not to give in once and for all before. Summarizes the most important of your rules and consequences appear whenever they break these rules. Then, these were all told your child.
For many parents, control yourself not to criticize children is difficult, therefore, think twice before you speak, you use different tone and wording, effect difference will be very big. Like saying: I love you, but I cannot accept your behavior. That preliminary hearings very hard, but later, children would naturally know what you mean.
In other cases, you would expect as they must be explained to them. If you want to take them to visit the supermarket, told them not to tamper with and merchandise, and warned that if the consequences of the violation is.
When it comes to ask you to follow-up from beginning to end in the end, no loud threats.
No comments:
Post a Comment