Significance of parent to child physical and mental development is much more important than people imagine. If you can be more involved in the cultivation of the child on children is also a more lasting happiness.
This evening, who lives in the eastern part of Ms Pang was sent back to second grade son on popojia road in Guangxi. Because children at a nearby elementary school, Monday to Friday, children\'s learning and living entirely by Grandma Grandpa agent.
Although each \"respectively\", child jijiwaiwai, Peng also some do not care, but Peng Lady think do \"parents weekend\" very smart, and overtime, on the evening of socializing, no longer have to worry about how placement of children.
It is understood that the city on the island, such as Ms Pang weekend parents there. With many families children are handed over to the elderly, only weekend family reunion together. What are the advantages and disadvantages of this method of 5+2 with children? Reporters interviewed about education people in the industry.
Parents over the weekend, looks beautiful
Reporters interviewed 10 random mother, of which 6 mother to child to care for the elderly, their parents over the weekend. \"Old man\'s body is good, and like children, busy with our work, but also charging. This very good with children. \"Many young people said in an interview, they are busy at work, go out in the morning and return in the evening every day, some even taking the children to school have time, let alone with the baby to eat and drink. Working in the foreign trade company, Ms LAU told reporters, \"normally, sending their children to the elderly is both easy and rest assured, there are more of my wife and two-person space. Weekends with children to climb, swim swimming, living youziyouwei. ”
\"In fact the elderly with children, there is no way to approach! \"Who lives in the East China Sea Road, Mr Yang said:\" parents age, living with children is not easy, so that the elderly with children are also helpless thing! Their home in the East, the old man lived in the West of the old town, Qingdao number of good schools are concentrated there. Try taking the children every day, from East to West, a few days down, child adult hen, only children living in the elderly. ”
Old man with children, Liet disadvantages yeah
A primary school head teacher told a press conference, the worst in the class of education there are two kinds of people: those are the children of single parent families, with children and also the elderly. Her class have one parent, due to the busy grandparents with children, soon discovered his daughter become very effeminate:, prone to crying requests, and grandparents almost every whim. Obviously children can best do things there refused to let the children do, such as packing up bags, lace up, let alone washing clothes, kids are independent is very poor.
It is understood that the old Constitution weaker with most of the children, because the elderly are always afraid of children catch cold, much much wear, cover, resulting in sweating, poor physique impaired body fluid. Of course, there are some old people \"grandchildren\" war exercises have in place, child care, education is fruitful. But anyway, with children is a hard work. Aunt Wang who lives in Yanan Road almost 66 years old, the age was supposed to be retired to enjoy a leisurely day at home, but she kept busy, reason is just great grandson to 6 years old, grandchildren born. So no idle a day for the elderly, even feel than ever before to work also tired, but the children are not very sensible, that helped the children of the elderly is \"natural\" thing.
Interview with reporter found that most elderly people feel that help children, their children so that they bear a certain degree of psychological pressure, a meet school children at the kindergarten door grandmother said: \"sometimes the art of naughty, knock out to touch it, my heart is with \' click \', although the child\'s father and mother said nothing, but I also uncomfortable! \"Talking about concerns of the elderly, which they fear most is that the child is seriously injured or lost, followed well delay child is afraid of its own education.
Rose week teachers reminds parents of Qingdao University, parents for the child to physical and mental growth of meaning far more important than people think. If you can be more involved in the cultivation of the child on children is also a more lasting happiness. Parents in addition to their caring, sometimes more important psychological parenting, which also concerns the children basic cultivation of psychological quality in the future. And children together through shared growth, is every parent\'s responsibility. Many young parents choose to do the weekend parents, \"busy\" might be a reason, there is also a responsibility of components, now is really easy, smart, and will certainly leave your regrets and hidden dangers in the future.
Intergenerational education advantage, the key is to see how elder is a \"law of love\", \"method of pain\", as long as the proper love, children will grow to physical and mental health. However, parental education who also cannot be copied, cannot be replaced. As parents, are never too busy to take time to children, must not be completely over the education of children to the elderly.
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