Want to talk to children talk about \"sex\", but hesitated for not opening the biggest reason for this is: parents \' worries and uncertainty – exactly what should be on.
Maybe you didn\'t know, thinking, understanding, and for information on children\'s response capacity different from adults. For example: a child of three to put birth of conceptualization; a four year old child by accident to see parents making love, might think they are fighting. If interpreted this situation: \"father in the mother body sowing a seed\" is not very appropriate, because his mind may therefore appear one-long-mother the body a lurid picture of a plant.
First of all you should know the psychological development of children. In the early 20th century, children are deemed to have several different stages of psychological development. Understand the psychological development of children will help parents understand what the children think, feel, and why you want to do that.
Baby was born from the first day--from parents feel her and hold her way, and tone learning to love to talk to her. Freud believes that this is \"sex\" to start.
Curiosity will make little baby begin to explore their bodies, some infants will \"touch\" of some parts of the body, to meet their own exploration. Study found that even small baby will appear similar to the excited state.
In accordance with Piaget\'s studies, 18-month-old baby, know about cause and effect is slightly. If a toddler when the children touched their genitals is often a slap, so when it came to little when someone next to him, he will stop this behavior (he may have touched his genitals in private, and thus consciously guilty). After the older, the impugned act, may make the children believe that behavior is a bit \"evil\". If so, would be too bad, because it is only available to children for information: this is a where you can be happy, but it is not acceptable behavior.
Between two and three years old children begin to understand this is called \"sex\". Positioning of the formation of male or female at the moment, will indirectly affect their future behavior, interpersonal relationships and sexual response.
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