In the long-term education consulting, I found, comes to consult parents and younger, some years ago, pupils of junior middle school students and parents more in recent years, parents of pre-school children has gradually increased, and recent years, mother of expectant fathers visit increasing, their physical development and education of the fetus in abdominal great concern. Of course, professional sensitive reminds me of these prospective parents in psychological, both positive factors will effect on promoting the development of children, there are also negative factors are likely to hinder the development of the child.
Since she is pregnant, the couple hopes for the future, to her husband in life was considerate, also ask around various \"mother\", so that the wife under the guidance of professional smart give birth to a healthy baby, and intend to after birth the child would not allow his wife to work. Already 32 years old, Ms LAU is also happy enough, but her mental is not always sunny, wind and rain from time to time, haze or sky. She do had some plot is similar of dream, such as: children health out found has 6 a finger, or will has a is blame of bugs to bites baby, she even also dream to has been feelings is good of husband suddenly disappeared, own in helpless of children before more helpless tick tick she is puzzle own how will such, worry this bad of State will effect abdominal in the fetal, a to this situation she on will plus long \"antenatal instruction\" time, expectations on children has cover. Tell your husband about, he would laugh away, he felt his wife quick mother, nerve a little allergy is normal.
Although other pregnant woman describes the details of different, but their mental state is similar, reflect the psychological characteristics of prospective mothers generally.
Encourage late marriage and late childbirth in modern society, increasing maternal age, this pressure is necessary to ease the country\'s population, but individuals of pregnant women and analysis specific to each family, specific problems.
☆ Mother: happiness without security
Level of general improvement of the modern young couples, to enhance the value of education stick to. They believe Watson of a sentence famous: \"please to I a dozen a robust and no defects of baby, let I placed in I own of special of world in the parenting, so, I can guarantees, in this a dozen a baby in the, I casually took a to, are can training its became any expert--regardless of he of ability, and hobby, and trend, and to, and occupational and the race is how, I are to any training he became a doctor, or a lawyers, or a artist, or a business leader. \"This approximation in the myth of the theory of universal education deeply affect young couples, especially those that lack the\" immersive \"experience of prospective fathers are even more so, pressure, however, let the mother to bear.
She dreams of is of great significance, reflects modern society on the female role of psychological challenges faced:
Concerns about life
\"A child born there 6 finger, or you will have a very strange insects to bite the baby. \"This is a female mother later special concerns about the fragility of life, this is not expectant fathers experience the.
On role orientation of the puzzle
\"Feeling good husband suddenly disappear\" female \"mother wife +\" dilemma of how to position the dual role. Women want to own mother role, still from her husband of romantic love and marriage, has been \"live\" these psychological changes of the husband to the wife of \"the dark\", say she did to their mother after losing female role, also hold certain suspects, she said: \"women at work is the most attractive. ”
Lack of confidence on raising children
\"Its more helpless in front of the helpless children\" is mother to bring up and educate children lack confidence, if the new mother\'s social support network stability of large scale, high and very effective, mother would not feel so helpless.
Visible, she is happy honeypots, but psychological security is not a 100%.
She fears justified, healthy life of the country, lost its normal standards, talking about how \"smart\"? She heard many stories of unsafe, children just a moment, but there is incessant occurrences, some subjective and objective factors is complex, so who knows that time is not very smooth? Although due to pregnancy and rise of \"a mission hope of fire\" rendering has warm of family atmosphere, in-laws and maiden caring, but fetal more large own heart more no end, and bad to husband every day nagging own \"alarmist\" of story, these negative mentality had to in dream in slowly \"digestive\" has, results dream also \"digestive\" can\'t, produced \"indigestion\", effect to day of emotional and behavior. As she practices are not in a position to extend the antenatal instruction time, because of fetal hearing very immature and could not accept the stimulus for a long time, high density.
☆ Mother psychological influence children\'s development
Mother to psychological conditions such as stress, anxiety and stress affects fetal development, and even shaping the future development of the child template. Been specifically studied to investigate those mothers emotional changes of pregnancy during a lot of children, watch them in childhood and adolescence what kind of personality. Studies have shown that mother\'s moods, emotions and moods, emotions of the fetus while not one by one the relationship, but mothers all the intense psychological reaction in fetal body an accumulation, is likely to cause the child character in the future a strange, as manifested in forced-neurotic, paranoid personality. Visible, prospective mother\'s health or sub-health state of psychological effects on the fetus is not a matter for a moment, is long-term. The status will change the mother of educational behavior and attitudes to their children, so as to affect a child\'s development.
☆ Expectant fathers: needs to spend more effort
There is a saying: \"stand and speak without pain. \"This reflects the psychological characteristics of outsiders will inevitably have a holier-than-thou manner. After the wife is pregnant,
While the husband is also the trouble of doing a lot of work, but it is \"external\", mother of psychological support and help more expectant fathers work husband as if nothing had happened \"laugh away\" exacerbate mother to feelings of helplessness.
According to studies, di29-32-week fetus begins sensitive to outside voices, sound of music, the sound of splashing water and other sounds can all cause fetal perception and activities, mother of kinetic energy to the rhythm of the heartbeat and walk made him feel safe, quiet. If the prospective father and mother of mental communication was clear, and at the psychological care of the mother in every possible way, the fetus can hear MOM safe, normal rhythm of the \"heart\", or even feel the romance of MOM and dad still love because he is eager to this psychological atmosphere of green, environmental protection, which is the growth of both he and his mother needed \"hormone\".