By Leo Tolstoy to teach children

Russian writer Leif? interest in Tolstoy\'s great attention to children, although his writing time is valuable, but never forget to devote some time to the children, to tell their story, painting for them, answer their questions.

Tolstoy is not taking the time to give the children forced to impart knowledge, but rather based on the tastes and interests of children, for their services. There was a time, the children to the section of young writers rule? is interested in Verne\'s work, Tolstoy was a and a local told the children. He found the global tourism 80 days, no illustrations in this book, in order to help children understand, further arousing their interest, he should be with Quill in person every night for the illustrations in this book depicts. Tolstoy\'s time is valuable, but he thinks the time is spent in improving children\'s learning interest in stimulating children\'s thirst for knowledge is worth.

40 of children experience

If you want to reduce as the parents of disturbed and be happy in their own gifted children from education, the United States scholar David. Lewis the following recommendations might make your achievement.

1. all issues raised by children, to make the most patient and honest answer.

2. children raised serious issues and views seriously.

3. Place one aircraft on display, children can be displayed above your things.

4. Not because their children in the room or on the desktop is a mess and blame, as long as this is for her creative activities for

5. Giving children a room or room part, mainly for his play.

6. Explain to the children, he is very cute, no need to express themselves.

7. Let the children as he can do things.

8. Help children to develop his personal plans and methods for completing the project.

9. take children to a place of interest to play.

10. help your child improve his job.

11. to help children and normal children from different cultural sectors of society.

12. They follow reasonable standards of conduct and see the children act accordingly.

13. Never no children said that he is worse than the other children.

14. Never insult to punish the child.

15. Providing children with books and materials, so that he can do something like.

16. Let your child independent thinking.

17. For children something to read on a regular basis.

18. let children develop reading habits since childhood.

19. Motivate children stories, fantasies.

20. Children\'s personal requirements seriously.

21. Time alone together with the children every day.

22. Allow children to participate in planning household and travel matters.

23. Never mocked him because of the children to make mistakes.

24. Recognition of children reciting poetry, told stories and sang songs.

25. Teach children and adults of all ages free exchanges.

26. elaboration of experimental plan, help the child learn more things.

27. Allow children to play with all kinds of waste.

28. Encourage children problem is found, then to address these problems.

28. When a child in the dry matter, keep looking for something laudable.

30. Never empty and not sincere recognition of children.

31. Honest evaluation of their child\'s feelings.

32. Topic does not exist cannot be discussed with the child.

33. Let the children have the opportunity to really make their own decisions.

34. Help children become people with personality.

35. Help children looking for notable TV show.

36. Children have played a positive ability to understand their own competence.

37. never no children fail looked down upon.

38. Encouraged children trying not to rely on adults.

39. Believe that the child\'s mind and trust him.

40. Let children finish essential part of the work performed by it, even if it does not believe it will have a positive final outcome.

Zhejiang University name mouth of parental

Popularization of philosophy and social science week in Zhejiang Province \"Cultural Forum\" Zhejiang University lecture, speaker faculty of Zhejiang University tutor of yesterday, has been called one of the four famous mouth of Yu Xiaofeng, Zhejiang University education

King, making a mathematical competition champion

\"My child at the beginning of elementary school mathematics contest champion. How to learn math? Old k out! \"Yesterday\'s Humanities Forum, Professor Yue also talked about the basic education.

Professor Yue said, learning is of key interest, as long as the student believes that learning is a happy then not learn things. Professor Yue is the case of the children\'s interest in mathematics: when I first began to teach children to count to add and subtract each day to accompany him King, and deliberately let him win, resulting in children becoming more interested in arithmetic. In order to lay the King, to the development of every day is a lot of math problems. \"Mathematical competition champion is as simple to turn out! ”

Children learn language day built three sentences

When it comes to language training, Professor Yue is reluctant to do so. Many language teachers now know only make children remember new English words back Word, write a word wrong dozens of times a penalty. But Professor Yu believes that in fact, best way to learn language is in a sentence. But Chinese teacher now rarely let the children in a sentence, this is because if children make three sentence, 60 people worked as a class, the teacher will issue of 180 in the evening a sentence!

Academician from curiosity on the road to the quest

Bei Shizhang is famous for cell biologists, educators, the scientific activist. He pioneered on study of radiation biology and astrobiology, founded the cell renewal theory, is the founder of Biophysics. He was the first to the sixth national people\'s Congress, the third to the sixth member of the NPC Standing Committee. Current honorary Director of the Institute of Biophysics Chinese Academy of Sciences, senior academician of Chinese Academy of Sciences. His achievements, is how to achieve it? Please look at sth

Trip to Shanghai open the door of curiosity

Bei Shizhang honest as a child. Rarely out of their door, until when he was 3 years old, only leads to the ancestral hall in the village elders take a look at. Unexpectedly, his ancestral stone lions at the gate ball became interested in the mouth, he couldn\'t help thinking: the ball is rolling, without falling out, this is going on about? Bei Shizhang to wonder for a long time, didn\'t figure out the reason.

Once, father with Bei Shizhang mother and to Shanghai, and along, Bei Shizhang see many things that have never seen before. He saw tow men, saw the Chief crewman paddle swing very fast, never seen the country called \"jiangtian the wheel of fire\" big ship. Bei Shizhang surprise is: no one track and Chief crewman, how can the ship moves it? A light in the cabin, there is no burning oil, how lamp can light up? To these questions, Bei Shizhang understand their solutions.

To has Shanghai, Bell Shi Zhang see has many novel strange of thing, he sat of rickshaw and country of alone wood car different, rickshaw is people in front pull, alone wood car is people in behind push; he see small tert-to he buy of dog head cap, and Tiger shoes Shang of pattern and country of different, he in bustling of Nanjing Road see shop window has a wood of, and yellow hair, and will own rotation of \"ocean models\". Bei Shizhang dully stood still, he did not see this how can wood turning.

Bei Shizhang also appear in aunt to see real light, this light relies on the \"pulling head\", a flipping to make it light up on a fight. Bei Shizhang daft and looked at the light, the country to have this thing just more convenient.

A short trip to Shanghai and Bei Shizhang eye-opening, unlimited reverie filled his heart. Trip to Shanghai opened a door of his curiosity and exploration.

Mother taught useful life

Because Bell Shi Zhang good static bad dynamic, mother often to he at home watch does not let dog came in, Bell Shi Zhang is obedient, hand took a root playing dog stick, care with home; if no dog came in, Bell Shi Zhang on quietly to wanted to with own of mind, this habits he has been keep to now, regardless of work or learning, he are can does not by outside of interference, concentrate on to do own of things.

Mother loved Bei Shizhang, but never pampered and doted on him. Mother literacy is less, from childhood, he knew the child to be diligent, often taught Bei Shizhang table, sweeping, weave fishing nets. Mothers often hung on the lip of a Word is: \"the boys are not diligent, grow up no ability to make eat, later to marry and bear a son, setting up a family, not labor do not live. \"Mother never to Bei Shizhang pocket money, often telling him,\" boy habit of spending money bad, poor people not matter, but to learn how to budget carefully. One man in the world, and lifted the old small, to be responsible. \"Poor family at that time, days are tight, and mother never to relatives and neighbors because of poor stingy. The new year, who came home guest, mothers try to give them some good clothes to pawn for some money to alleviate their urgent needs. Mother Bei Shizhang and his sister said: \"parents helping parents, o-o, who is not a difficult? Relatives and neighbors to help each other sth \"obedient Bei Shizhang keep mother firmly in mind. New year, have a chance to buy some meat in the House, killing the chickens, to improve their lot. Mothers but these chickens, meat only came out when guests, guests sharing. Mothers tell Bei Shizhang: \"small children to eat meat bones, leaving guests to eat meat! Would rather eat almost our own, but also to make the guests to eat well. Only if we respect other people, then others will respect us. This is a courtesy. Children must be polite! \"Mother education Bei Shizhang do things in life, he himself treated in a heart of a kind and friendly neighborhood, won the people\'s respect, which Bei Shizhang established a good image of the mother.

Mother Bei Shizhang was a Word to say: \"Ah, men want something, you need culture, Eminem (dialect: mother) has no culture has bitter life, you must give Eminem best, good reading, to be a smart man. \"Later proved Bei Shizhang developed a good habit to live, work, all his life in studying knowledge, has made great achievements, he have not forgotten the teachings of the mother, has become a smart man! Learn and Bei Shizhang grow wings to fly

Bei Shizhang just started reading the book, he felt fresh and interesting, and feel that knowledge can be used, and think of seeing, were all down, reading were useful to him. Then reading, has many text is to reciting of, as Li Bai of spring night banquet peach and plum Park sequence under beginning several sentence meaningful of verses: \"husband world who, everything of hotel, time who, hundred generation of passer, and fushengruomeng sth sth\" to he left has profound of impression, this undoubtedly strengthening has Bell Shi Zhang on learning of interest, Li Bai in another a article article in the wrote of \"chaos early open, universe began lay, gas child Qing light, floating who for days, sinking who for to sth sth\" on Bell Shi Zhang of effect also is deep, he think is has philosophy, awareness to world universe is

Natural opening, not of God. This is Bei Shizhang initial awareness of the nature of life.

Bei Shizhang wider access to scientific knowledge, broaden their perspective of knowledge, benefit from sensible parents, know how to send their children to read and eye-opening long man of insight. In 1915, Bei Shizhang at the age of 12, his father sent him at the German-run school in Hankou. This school does not talk about religion, regardless of politics, only to instil in the students \' knowledge of science. Bei Shizhang in this school have learned a lot about astronomy, physics, chemistry, mathematics and knowledge of plants and animals, also read a e · Scheer with Philip on the \"protein style\" books, this is he of protein primary understanding of the meaning of life.

Father Bei Shizhang habits have a great influence as a child, father not many words, lead a regular life, he often warned Bei Shizhang, kept things to a fixed location to avoid waste of time. Bei Shizhang has learned from his father ordered good habits of life, and held until now.

The fall of 1921, Bei Shizhang graduated in Tongji University preparatory course, hoping to study abroad, father son, mother know can\'t afford to support study abroad, but is also sold \' houses, and scrape together enough for a cost of $ 800 for his son. Parents strongly support, allowing Bei Shizhang to embarked on a journey of exploring the science of life.

When memories in their own way of life, Bell in the old speech was filled with gratitude to their parents, he said: is the \"mother people, industrious and thrifty and kind spirit of tolerance, as their motto. Determined, to overcome all the difficulties, struggle \". Bei old hope: \"21st century become the century of peace, human happiness in the world. “

Do early education can create a genius?

Early education can create genius do? many parents would be interested in this issue, and many educational experts, child psychologist raised strong objections to this. These experts are not symptoms, but according to the conclusions of the scientific investigation of the system. Distinguished experts on more than 100 employees have made a systematic investigation and found no direct relationship to their achievement and early education. None of these successful parents forcing their children to learn, and don\'t think early education can make creative talent, on the contrary, they let the child choose its own future.

From this study also shows that role does not, as some of their parents on early childhood education as understood by, let the children early reading, literacy, learning piano, painting, etc, but rather to support, encourage children to their own interests, hobbies, another point is their family atmosphere full of wisdom. In addition, the main factors of success of these successful people, not because of the enlightenment who teach them some kind of knowledge and skills, but enlightenment on your career with great enthusiasm, it is this passion deeply infected with them. A successful person loves and fully invested in their cause is a major factor in its success. As to the specific knowledge and skills, is a later problem. Many parents had at the time of early education putting the cart before. This survey is the conclusion on the correct understanding of early education for parents will be a great help.

Now, there are many children\'s early specialized training courses, such as electronic music, dance, calligraphy, drawing, English, were very popular. This phenomenon can be seen from parents attach great importance to training and education to their children, which is a manifestation of social progress. However, many parents regardless of the child\'s interests, hobbies, and long, forcing them to accept the spoon-feeding education, its results are often counterproductive. Some research shows that intervention by parents on their children too much, but will slow down the children intellectual development, in particular the development of creative intelligence to a standstill. Therefore, when parents prepared early training of the child, should seriously consider the following issues:

1, to understand the characteristics of the child to physical and mental development, timely and progressive determine reasonable goals of education for their children. Reasonable education that can truly promote children\'s intellectual development, rather than suppress it.

2, parents should respect the wishes of the child, providing freedom to explore the world and activities for kids-Yang.

3, parents should think in terms of physiological and psychological development of children, pay attention to the implementation of diversification in education, for preschool children, mainly through fun, hobbies and interests of children in the first place.

Tour of the Himalayas for Tagore as a child,

India poets, writers, thinkers and social activist Robin delanate·taigeer came from a wealthy family, his childhood and youth were spent at home under his custody, Tagore was closed within high walls in the compound, dare not go one step beyond the limit. Because of this, he was outside the walls more vast and mysterious world of curiosity and longing. Tagore\'s the age of 12 years, his father took him to the Himalayas tour for the first time, he was happy beyond words. They reached the first cantonment is the mulberry Nick Temple, where the open is boundless, vast wilderness, Tanzania dew wasteland, there are the courtyards of ditch and gully gully, under the blue sky and white clouds, like a picture of a thick heavy color painting. Scenery deep infection of Tagore, he won for the first time in open nature to roam in the fun. They headed for continued to the Himalayas, a tour along many parts, has also visited the Golden Temple of amoertesaer, and those who are pious believers together, sing Ode to Sikh man\'s Divine Comedy. When you arrived in the Himalayan foothills is yangchun in March, but the mountain spring is long overdue. After they take a break, to an altitude of 7,000 feet of del hero peak climbing. After several camping site on the way, they or walk, or ride a horse, or a sedan. Both sides of the mountain, ancient pines towering, flower chuzhan, cloud fly fog around, bird\'s Twitter acoustic, pure white snow-peak Ridge in glittering flashes, spiral up under the mountain, and gully ambitious, kingxsf Diego Chui. All these are like heaven for Tagore, unheard of, unprecedented, a heart full of curiosity and exploration revel in the beauty of the mountains. After they reached the peak del hero, lived in his own hut had purchased. Every time the sun rises in the East peak Ridge out when wandaojinguang, Tagore and his father have long walks in, and then returned to the House an hour reading English, to complete their cold water bath, is still reading this afternoon to discuss religious issues, was sitting under the stars at night, listen to father astronomical knowledge and enjoy the beautiful glamorous night at high altitude. Both father and son where he spent four months the whole tourist life.

The tour, so Tagore and the Himalayas have forged indissoluble bond, leaving his many unforgettable memories for life, he later said the Himalayas is \"live in seclusion in the heart of a lover.\" After the adults, with deep affection, he conducted a number of climbing the Himalayas. Poetry of the flying crane, published in 1916, these visits will faithfully records his feelings by critics as outstanding poem, reached the highest level of lyrics. Yihou, Tagore and his father and at the foot of the Himalayan mulberry, Nick Temple bought land, built a residential and a garden, they often go there to visit holiday. There, he also founded Arbor Day and plough the open section, the local afforestation prevail. Tagore\'s life already and Mulberry Nick Temple closely together, there, he adopted many of the experimental activities, expand and improve the sense of close to of their passion for nature, enjoy the beautiful natural scenery, familiar with the life of ordinary people, which had a very profound impact his poetry.

Utilitarian mind \"pulling\" not whiz

Girl Wei Mingshuang painting of 3 and a half out of the 200-metre painting scroll, the news reports into Tianjin people the focus of discussion, in particular young parents, want to have such a good baby. Reporter recently found some expertise to children, which made people envied the accomplishments of outstanding baby, without exception, lived a \"no pressure\" the happy life. In fact, \"let nature take its course, grown up\" is a lot of excellent baby\'s growing up experience.
　
\"Genius of gymnastics\" Cao Yuhui

Exercise not only disease

Less than two years old child to gymnastics, this isn\'t TV ads. The boy was two years old next month Cao Yuhui, horizontal bars played well, he can do on the horizontal bar \"Chin\", or kick, reverse action can be done, even do one-arm vertical hanging. Little guy just for \"healthy baby contest\" that extraordinary athletic ability to obtain good results. The healthy baby can ease children\'s bicycle master, rendered his swing to 150 degrees. Cao Yuhui only eight or nine months when performing horizontal bars on the door frame of action in their own home, kid muscle is strong in the professional guidance of the teachers also have conducted some conscious training. However, do you want to become a gymnast for the kids, parents and not a long-term plan. His mother said: \"a child was born of poor health, let him exercise not only, as to whether he can engage in physical culture and sports, we do not have any breaks. ”

5 \"Chess\" after Chen Yuxin
　
Happy go happy life

Red Bridge in the nursery class, 5-year-old girl Chen Yuxin usually not noticeable, also did not see her effort to go to the various training courses, but she did not long ago at the Tianjin third \"intelligence treasure\" children\'s chess game made with the constituency first place in the women \'s, mixed group of men and women in the total score and the other two boys tied for first place. For her award-winning, parents did not think, they say, chess is a child to learn, just wanted to let her long experience, make some friends. Chen Yuxin education, parents are \"love is the last word\" attitude. Little girl also likes to dance, mother says: \"she was a chubby girl, dancing hard results, but as long as she likes could go jump. \"Now, parents have no intention to let Chen Yuxin had to become a professional chess player, they just want to play to give children more opportunities for interaction with others. Therefore, regardless of winning and losing at Chess, the little girl is always grinning.

\"Piano genius\" Li Duojia

Small study of the piano child simply does not stage
　
4 Li Duojia is peaceful 11 young Manager of \"genius\" because he not only piano play very good, knowledgeable, versatile. From Li Duojia began learning to play the piano from the age of 3, to the present, he has no other \"Qing Tong\" grading problems most distressed, because parents simply did not take his examination. His mother said: \"we only want our children to enjoy life, enjoy the happiness. He likes to play the piano, so we let him go, hope he feel good things in the world through music. What we don\'t expect him to become masters. \"So, Li Duojia every day practicing the piano for a long time, is there grading ability of little concern to parents. Mother accompany children everywhere to more spare time to play, increase a child\'s insight. While many people thought he had heard of Li Duojia playing good talent, but the mother was only a piano as a child living in the \"toy\".

His mother said: \"my idea of education is young does not state ambition, do not give their children any pressure. Emotions can affect children from parents, if you have one thing very nervous, then the child is nervous, tense also mentioning the fun? ”
　
\"Ambassador\" Yang Yifan

Acquired dancing elegant

5 years old young girl Yang Yifan peace 11 class of \"Star\" because she of Tianjin in the just-ended \"Ambassador\" got the second prize in the competition, and she is active in the class, can sing dance also will chair, piano painting also goes without saying. However, she dances in the match although has won consistent praise from the judges, is not practiced out of the course, but her own, it\'s no wonder the judges said she jumped \"informal program, fresh\". Yang Yifan has so far not been to any dance training courses, because parents felt that life was too tired, how they want daughters how to jump on jump, how happy do.
　
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Educational process is more important than the results

What is the purpose of education? Many parents believe that training is excellent baby. Excellent standard of what? Many parents answer results. Parents the results look very heavy, in fact, is the most important part of education process, through this process allow children to acquire more skills, the most happy. And now, many parents the misunderstanding lies in the reduction process as far as possible in order to result, or even feel that it is not. Parents hurriedly seek only pressure children often do not get any joy. Children of parents with envy by many eyes, their success in \"casual\" between their parents are mostly not too focus on

The results, and who are willing to let the children enjoy fun in the process. It is this calm, let your child have fully demonstrated their abilities.