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9.3.11

Jacqueline \"Polish independent personality\"

Jacqueline\'s first husband was United States President Kennedy, the second husband was King of the world ship Jackie Onassis. Despite her mingyangtianxia\'s rolling in, but she could not tolerate his son John later became a Playboy. To this end, when John at the age of 11, her son to the United Kingdom of Drake island \"Brave camp\" going to school, learning sailing, canoeing, hiking, exercise his strong decisive and independent personality. At the age of 13, she sent him up to the islands of Maine a learn independent living skills, in the 20-day training, do not give food to a gallon of water, two boxes of matches, and only a book How to make a living in the wild. When John at the age of 15, Jacqueline and then sending her son to Kenya in order to survive in the wilds. When John middle school when the summer holiday, she also sent his son to go to the \"National School of outdoor\" 70 days of training, at the same time, in order to further strengthen the John take charge as Chief talent, she was sending her son to participate in the peace corps in Guatemala in earthquake relief work.


John since childhood shyness, inferiority, indecisive, strong dependence, thanks temper of his mother, Jacqueline under the tutoring of independent personality, made him a confident cool, search up, sensible moderation, flexible understanding of youth. John in 1983 and graduated from Brown University, first in India work for some time, back to New York after serving as Deputy Director of the Association for the development of 42 Street, from early 1996, he became the United States, Chairman of a magazine.

By Leo Tolstoy to teach children

Russian writer Leif? interest in Tolstoy\'s great attention to children, although his writing time is valuable, but never forget to devote some time to the children, to tell their story, painting for them, answer their questions.


Tolstoy is not taking the time to give the children forced to impart knowledge, but rather based on the tastes and interests of children, for their services. There was a time, the children to the section of young writers rule? is interested in Verne\'s work, Tolstoy was a and a local told the children. He found the global tourism 80 days, no illustrations in this book, in order to help children understand, further arousing their interest, he should be with Quill in person every night for the illustrations in this book depicts. Tolstoy\'s time is valuable, but he thinks the time is spent in improving children\'s learning interest in stimulating children\'s thirst for knowledge is worth.

Rain stones in the rise of mathematicians

2001 State Supreme science and technology prize, the winner of mathematician Wu Wenjun\'s family is very general. But it is rare: father taught his son one of the most valuable things--seizing every moment to \"condition\" limit the cracks in the \"pin\" work harvest, for me, turn negative factors into favourable factors. This appears to be someone actually never stop pursuing the attached; this suspected no life moments in each rope, alert intelligently seized the opportunity, as fine as the same spirit, won a new Vista for himself, won a remarkable great achievements.

Turning negative into a favourable


Wu Wenjun was born in May 1919, with his ancestral hometown in Zhejiang jiaxing. Because of war moved to high terrain, far from the war of qingpuxian zhujiajiao. Grandfather is a scholar, teaches old-style private schools in the country for a living. Father Wu Futong born at the Sino-Japanese war was defeated during the various sectors of the nation from subjugation and seek to change, although the hundred days of reform failed, but Western has been overwhelming. Father attending Shanghai Nanyang public school, scientific culture and education, at the same time as he laid a good foundation in English. Shanghai is the scientific centre, publishing new book Center, which Wu Futong provided an excellent learning environment for youth, but also for the fact, Wu Wenjun the rise of its fertile soil.


Wu Wenjun nurtured since childhood by the father of democratic thought. He was the eldest son, there are two sisters and one brother. Brother accidentally fell down the stairs, who died after this great impact to Wu Wenjun parents. Pain of losing child plus so that Wu Wenjun to be an only son, he naturally became the parents of the baby, centralizing whole family love. He was sent at the age of 4 to a lane primary school studies, courses simple, there are many free time. Working in medical publishing house compiled\'s father has a large number of books, often pointing to the books say, what about more than fun outside! Poen to complex with a laptop opened, first explained to him, are after guidance, hands-on take him a little introduced a vast knowledge of the oceans, taught and trained his extraordinary ability to study independently. Books make Wu Wenjun the interest, and it has found interest in fun. And once in the science of music, his enthusiasm for learning is as rapid as nuclear reactors. Claustrophobic while reading of life also developed a habit of him hit the jackpot, and this is one of the most important substrate of a scientists in particular mathematicians. The most valuable is that this \"condition\" cracks \"pin\", turn negative factors into favourable matrix naturally through seepage into the hearts of his young, become instinct of self-consciousness in his long life in the future, is also one of his very important factor for success.

Study of self-study for axe


Turmoil times of war a quiet desk without a to Wu Wenjun. Eventually became a mathematician he previous mathematics in junior middle school is not solid. He had moved to the country to study. In schools from school days, he quietly sit down and learn. Gave him the father of the \"learning\" and \"mountain axe\" in the war made him break to the mountains in advance.

The fall of 1933, Wu Wenjun studied at began middle school. This is the beginning of his career as a regular reading. Began middle school teacher studying for long. Teachers are responsible, in accordance with their aptitude as he laid a good foundation. At the same time, he also reached in rigorous training in English read and write freely. See Wu Wenjun geometry so well, teachers often give him lots of exercises do, also kaixiaozao him. Wu Wenjun high school graduation, in fact interested in physics instead of mathematics. A physical examination is difficult, he did score well. Graduate schools to discuss admission, physics teacher recommended him to his unique eyes math. He finds his good physical exam because math, and studying mathematics so that he can be more better play. Thus, in 1936 he was admission to the Nanyang University (now Shanghai Jiaotong University), Department of mathematics.

Third year studying real variable function theory, he dominated by self-study, read classic. Have a real function on the basis of quickly into Cantor\'s set theory, studying point set topology. Because of these successes, in October 1947 he was recommended to go to Europe, to study in Paris. This he achieved performance of gold in the early days of the Department. Characteristic class of key results achieved and siyanluode operation, known as the \"Wu (first) formula\", revealed not only affect future developments in topology and related areas, also opened a new direction.


In 1949, he won the France State doctorate. Autumn of the same year, h · when invited into Paris France National Centre for scientific research work. On a differential manifold introduced a class of characteristic class, established effects for the fill,-Whitney characteristic class of relationship, this is called on the international \"Wu (second) formula\". As highly in Shiing-shen Chern, which on a fibre bundle landmark contribution to the study on the characteristic class.


Dragon\'s heart for the country to


Father\'s patriotic sentiments also nourish the growth of Wu Wenjun. Wu Wenjun the Nanyang University during the Japanese invasion of China, the school moved to concession, zhengshi scholarship suspended for middle school, became a traitor of the reformist members of the Government of being started high school principal Chen Qun, Wu Wenjun of appreciating mathematics, personally find Wu Wenjun, said to finance his studies, was roundly rejected by Wu Wenjun. Parents of integrity, honesty and deeds shaped his personality: he sincere, polite, sincere, friendly, fame, meticulous, never impetuous. A large number of cultural and historical books and arouse his ancient Saints hero free, bold and unrestrained by the powerful, military strategy in mind, the heroic complex of deep heart.

Also is this lofty patriotic enthusiasm of dual education casting, the eminent Wu Wenjun abandoned foreign positioned decided to return. He returned to Shanghai in July 1951, Institute of mathematics in China in 1952, becoming one of the greatest mathematician of international reputation in mainland China, mathematical community around the world are looking at his work.

Even in the \"cultural revolution\" period, he also did not give up study. Mathematics called learn a little history, Wu Wenjun seized the opportunity, justifiably countersunk maths history and a lot of research, his papers on the history of mathematics, the mathematics of great contributions to world culture in ancient China put forward creative ideas. In this way, he feel insecure in the political turmoil of different from ordinary people access to a fruitful outcome, China entered a new stage of the study of the history of mathematics. His pioneering and carrying forward the traditional culture of China, history according to the scientific method to show the world the brilliance of the ancient Chinese mathematics achievement, eloquently clarifies questions the existence of a value of mathematics in ancient China, affirmed China\'s position in the mathematical sciences in the world.


After the reform and opening up, he was a menace in the work. In 1984 he served as Chinese society, in 1990 into the mathematics mechanization Research Centre, 1992 national climbing project \"proving and application\" Chief expert. Mathematical and physical science prize in 1993, Tan Kah Kee, Hong Kong in 1994 seeking Foundation \"outstanding scientist Award\". In 1997, of the decision problem and mechanization elementary geometry problems published in the Chinese science, enabling efficient geometric theorem proving. Provide guidance to the development of mathematics mechanization for the mathematical sciences, carried out the study, will affect the entire mathematical research methods and approaches, will also affect the whole of mathematics thought and understanding. His pioneering contribution in mathematics mechanization research made him won the award for highest in the international field of automated reasoning--hebulan Award for outstanding achievement in automated reasoning, approved by the State Supreme science and technology award.

Anne taught child

People familiar with the Chinese stock market, especially the people in the Chinese stock market, few people do not know the name of Annie. From stock analysts to investors, Anne in a decade out of the article of their own success.


Anne was a very professional person, while Anne was also a different mother.


On the age of 30 years when mother Anne, she was the mother when it was kind of thrilling. Son was born with difficulty, parent Anne because of bleeding and again at the beginning on the operating table. Sons are born sick, hospitalized rescue over and over again. Born half a year, still all night crying, is only skin and bones, even had lost confidence in Anne\'s mother. Was difficult to control for the elderly and he kept saying: \"the child can\'t live! The child can\'t live! \"Anne will never relinquish, resolutely immediately asked for a holiday, dedicated to handle children. The day to say, hard is the evening, a sick child down on the bed crying desperately, Anne and her husband never sleeps through the night to hold only he paced back and forth in the room. At midnight before Anne is responsible for six to 12 points, after midnight to six o\'clock in the morning the husband is responsible for 12 points, this shifts the approach for the whole adhere for a year, we can see that parent the power of love and love.


Sick son finally gave, Anne\'s heart with say a likes, but reason tells her: for a child, all like the parents should have a clear direction, that is the child become a good person.

Anne has a unique philosophy of education, she believed that fostering a good people is the key to cultivate his character, rather than training his learning. In developing the character of the most important point is to train children independence, fostering children\'s viability. Her son often say: \"is your own business, why parents urge you at all? Life is your own business, parents is irreplaceable, it doesn\'t matter whether you betray your parents in the future, but must not betray themselves. For own risk is the responsibility of a man at the very least. \"Anne and husband agreement, let the child was brought up to accept an open education in developed countries, not like most Chinese parents of all children, all of the package.


Son enters kindergarten, Annie\'s career started again, busy as a bee all day. Husband who is a writer in the North for further studies. Son go home at five o\'clock in the afternoon away from the Park, every day is a locked door in the House, where the mother is not known. Mother has left instructions long ago: you find a way to go to any place you can go, whether you eat or asked of host, when mother comes back, one by one to huanqing. Annie would do, and probably the tutor about her childhood. Her parents for her very little bundles, they grew up letting her freely. Therefore, she felt that in today\'s society, this is a good way.


Son\'s primary school, as a mother, Anne accompanied him to report to the school on the first day, and then sent him to the classroom. School experience on such a parent-subsidiary company in son\'s memory only once, never since. That night Anne is seriously son said: \"the way you have come to school today, from then on MOM and dad will never transfer, there is no time, second, it is not necessary. \"When it comes to Anne, son even way after the school gate, even the wind and rain, she insisted that her son home alone. Weather often bizarre underground to rain in Jiangnan, small reading lang also true to themselves, when the spot, he ran barefoot himself, when heavy rain, he will hide under the umbrella of the others.


Annie never counselling son\'s job. As a child, son experience difficulties doing their homework, she was asked by his own teacher, ask classmates, her son said, \"you should start early learning how to learn, how to ask for help, this is a very important survival ability. \"Anne son demands a bit special, from small to large learning will always be her own first name in the class, just her son said,\" no hard laborious study of 100 minutes, 60 minutes on it. But in answer to this question must be a little creative spirit, cannot conform. \"In the subjects of the son, is his composition of An Niwei a concern, asked her why, and Anne made it really:\" my husband and I are engaged in literary origin, our family can\'t a person was poorly constructed. Also, the voice of the essay as well, which can also capture the true thought of a little child, otherwise how can effectively communicate with him. ”


In the eyes of Anne\'s son is such a man: in accordance with the prevailing standards of good students, son General only work, but in the middle class, son is a center of shakers, comparison, that in Anne\'s wish.


Son primary school not two years, South Anne began her career as a stock market in Shenzhen, son naturally follow mother transferred to Guangdong. Anne as she established practice out into a good school will wash its hands of the son, because she needed to dedicate to begin their life fighting for the second time. But far from home for the first time the son, and could not understand Cantonese of her classmates, the feeling of loneliness and solitude.


One day, son Prim Annie said, \"MOM, you know, I have thought of committing suicide. \"Anne was alarmed:\" now there is this idea? \"Son easily laughed:\" when I can and when you say frankly, that I have already had this off. \"This time

Dialog on Anne\'s touching great, she began to reflect on their own educational methods: is too rational? Is it somewhat biased? Legitimate she into blame Shi inadvertently see has son of a article composition, content just is on \"mother\" of, Anne original thought son will in composition in the has complained, no thought son is in text in the wrote: \"in I young Shi, mother to raising I pain abandoned has own of cause, now mother to can let I by best of education and decided to began has second of venture, I think I of mother is all of mother in the most indomitable of people. \"Anne feel relieved. Anne\'s son Xue Fei, the young students are now United Kingdom to study. Go all the way across the ocean are also parents and children to discuss study abroad decisions. Parents pay child output, from applications to the visa was Xue Fei alone own fix.

Xue Fei said: \"mother was brought up to me mainly mentally, she let me independent as possible in other areas, so I now after going abroad is not difficult to adapt.

Where the high was as a child of the ordinary

However, they know him very well in catching insects in the water with more clever. When he comes back, always show them a variety of beetles: has a Flash, Brown Shell, large circular eyes, and out of the water in the texture of neural after bending of flexible legs of sth


With respect the children\'s voice talking about him, no mockery of meaning, but they are not asked to the fresh and cool stream. Stream open most beautiful not to Ecstasy and rose water lily, there, insert a Flash into the white sands of hands, without the slightest dust stained. Children instinctively feel their brother likes to be alone. If the father to send him to the boarding schools have a holiday, he sought not to accompany, but lonely.


He knew where the most precious spent longer than. He avoided the cabin with straight streets and orderly village, through the hills and valleys to find his way. He could always find amazing things at a time, peer in the natural habitat of rare animals and birds. For the birds, he knew of their nests or living place. If you see a pair of Skylark landed in a wheat field, he does not know how to close them break around the Wo.


At that time he did not leave a picture of a pen or a pencil sketch. The future painter at that time and didn\'t want to draw, just quite coves.


Is still a small boy, he had with great curiosity, examine a sculptor\'s Assistant made of clay to his small. The age of 8 years, he painted a painting: winter garden, a cat in a crazy run on bare Apple tree.


Mother was astounded that, children Arts natural expression of feeling is so amazing, she can\'t believe it\'s true. For a long time, are parents to talk about it.

Zhejiang University name mouth of parental

Popularization of philosophy and social science week in Zhejiang Province \"Cultural Forum\" Zhejiang University lecture, speaker faculty of Zhejiang University tutor of yesterday, has been called one of the four famous mouth of Yu Xiaofeng, Zhejiang University education


King, making a mathematical competition champion


\"My child at the beginning of elementary school mathematics contest champion. How to learn math? Old k out! \"Yesterday\'s Humanities Forum, Professor Yue also talked about the basic education.


Professor Yue said, learning is of key interest, as long as the student believes that learning is a happy then not learn things. Professor Yue is the case of the children\'s interest in mathematics: when I first began to teach children to count to add and subtract each day to accompany him King, and deliberately let him win, resulting in children becoming more interested in arithmetic. In order to lay the King, to the development of every day is a lot of math problems. \"Mathematical competition champion is as simple to turn out! ”


Children learn language day built three sentences


When it comes to language training, Professor Yue is reluctant to do so. Many language teachers now know only make children remember new English words back Word, write a word wrong dozens of times a penalty. But Professor Yu believes that in fact, best way to learn language is in a sentence. But Chinese teacher now rarely let the children in a sentence, this is because if children make three sentence, 60 people worked as a class, the teacher will issue of 180 in the evening a sentence!

Silly child eventually make people sit up

In 1800, Germany Haler near a village called Loch, a is considered the baby of dementia was born, his name is Witt. Witt\'s father Carl. Witt had sad sighs: \"I am what sin, God gave me such a silly child? \"Witt\'s mother said:\" such children education he has no great promise, but in vain. \"The neighbours although in words to console them\" want to open the point \", but secretly also agree that Witt was an idiot.

However, Carl. Witt is, after all, a man of amazing unique insights, his belief that children must start with friendly and during the education, children education must appear as the dawn of infant intelligence begins, if this is the General child to become an ordinary man. Get down to him in accordance with their own plans, to educate the Witt, results that people dislike and avoid silly child let neighbors sit up soon. After early education, Witt 8-9 when able to freely use German, French, Italian, Latin, English and Greece 6 languages, knowledge of Zoology, Botany, physics, chemistry and mathematics. The age of 9 years, he was doctor of laws degree, 14 year old was given doctor of philosophy degree, two years later by the degree of doctor of laws, was employed as Professor of law at the University of Berlin. Distinguished career achievement in its life.


Carl. Witt on small Witt early education principles and methods are written in a book called the Carl weter educational books, this is perhaps the earliest literature of early education in the world, unfortunately the book has not been attention to at the time, as articulated in the book thought incompatible with people\'s minds.


As long as the proper education, children including those talent is not good for children, are growing. Carl. Witt on his son\'s education in early 19th century confirmed this point, many talented people grow up also confirms this.

Academician from curiosity on the road to the quest

Bei Shizhang is famous for cell biologists, educators, the scientific activist. He pioneered on study of radiation biology and astrobiology, founded the cell renewal theory, is the founder of Biophysics. He was the first to the sixth national people\'s Congress, the third to the sixth member of the NPC Standing Committee. Current honorary Director of the Institute of Biophysics Chinese Academy of Sciences, senior academician of Chinese Academy of Sciences. His achievements, is how to achieve it? Please look at sth


Trip to Shanghai open the door of curiosity


Bei Shizhang honest as a child. Rarely out of their door, until when he was 3 years old, only leads to the ancestral hall in the village elders take a look at. Unexpectedly, his ancestral stone lions at the gate ball became interested in the mouth, he couldn\'t help thinking: the ball is rolling, without falling out, this is going on about? Bei Shizhang to wonder for a long time, didn\'t figure out the reason.


Once, father with Bei Shizhang mother and to Shanghai, and along, Bei Shizhang see many things that have never seen before. He saw tow men, saw the Chief crewman paddle swing very fast, never seen the country called \"jiangtian the wheel of fire\" big ship. Bei Shizhang surprise is: no one track and Chief crewman, how can the ship moves it? A light in the cabin, there is no burning oil, how lamp can light up? To these questions, Bei Shizhang understand their solutions.


To has Shanghai, Bell Shi Zhang see has many novel strange of thing, he sat of rickshaw and country of alone wood car different, rickshaw is people in front pull, alone wood car is people in behind push; he see small tert-to he buy of dog head cap, and Tiger shoes Shang of pattern and country of different, he in bustling of Nanjing Road see shop window has a wood of, and yellow hair, and will own rotation of \"ocean models\". Bei Shizhang dully stood still, he did not see this how can wood turning.


Bei Shizhang also appear in aunt to see real light, this light relies on the \"pulling head\", a flipping to make it light up on a fight. Bei Shizhang daft and looked at the light, the country to have this thing just more convenient.


A short trip to Shanghai and Bei Shizhang eye-opening, unlimited reverie filled his heart. Trip to Shanghai opened a door of his curiosity and exploration.


Mother taught useful life


Because Bell Shi Zhang good static bad dynamic, mother often to he at home watch does not let dog came in, Bell Shi Zhang is obedient, hand took a root playing dog stick, care with home; if no dog came in, Bell Shi Zhang on quietly to wanted to with own of mind, this habits he has been keep to now, regardless of work or learning, he are can does not by outside of interference, concentrate on to do own of things.


Mother loved Bei Shizhang, but never pampered and doted on him. Mother literacy is less, from childhood, he knew the child to be diligent, often taught Bei Shizhang table, sweeping, weave fishing nets. Mothers often hung on the lip of a Word is: \"the boys are not diligent, grow up no ability to make eat, later to marry and bear a son, setting up a family, not labor do not live. \"Mother never to Bei Shizhang pocket money, often telling him,\" boy habit of spending money bad, poor people not matter, but to learn how to budget carefully. One man in the world, and lifted the old small, to be responsible. \"Poor family at that time, days are tight, and mother never to relatives and neighbors because of poor stingy. The new year, who came home guest, mothers try to give them some good clothes to pawn for some money to alleviate their urgent needs. Mother Bei Shizhang and his sister said: \"parents helping parents, o-o, who is not a difficult? Relatives and neighbors to help each other sth \"obedient Bei Shizhang keep mother firmly in mind. New year, have a chance to buy some meat in the House, killing the chickens, to improve their lot. Mothers but these chickens, meat only came out when guests, guests sharing. Mothers tell Bei Shizhang: \"small children to eat meat bones, leaving guests to eat meat! Would rather eat almost our own, but also to make the guests to eat well. Only if we respect other people, then others will respect us. This is a courtesy. Children must be polite! \"Mother education Bei Shizhang do things in life, he himself treated in a heart of a kind and friendly neighborhood, won the people\'s respect, which Bei Shizhang established a good image of the mother.

Mother Bei Shizhang was a Word to say: \"Ah, men want something, you need culture, Eminem (dialect: mother) has no culture has bitter life, you must give Eminem best, good reading, to be a smart man. \"Later proved Bei Shizhang developed a good habit to live, work, all his life in studying knowledge, has made great achievements, he have not forgotten the teachings of the mother, has become a smart man! Learn and Bei Shizhang grow wings to fly


Bei Shizhang just started reading the book, he felt fresh and interesting, and feel that knowledge can be used, and think of seeing, were all down, reading were useful to him. Then reading, has many text is to reciting of, as Li Bai of spring night banquet peach and plum Park sequence under beginning several sentence meaningful of verses: \"husband world who, everything of hotel, time who, hundred generation of passer, and fushengruomeng sth sth\" to he left has profound of impression, this undoubtedly strengthening has Bell Shi Zhang on learning of interest, Li Bai in another a article article in the wrote of \"chaos early open, universe began lay, gas child Qing light, floating who for days, sinking who for to sth sth\" on Bell Shi Zhang of effect also is deep, he think is has philosophy, awareness to world universe is

Natural opening, not of God. This is Bei Shizhang initial awareness of the nature of life.

Bei Shizhang wider access to scientific knowledge, broaden their perspective of knowledge, benefit from sensible parents, know how to send their children to read and eye-opening long man of insight. In 1915, Bei Shizhang at the age of 12, his father sent him at the German-run school in Hankou. This school does not talk about religion, regardless of politics, only to instil in the students \' knowledge of science. Bei Shizhang in this school have learned a lot about astronomy, physics, chemistry, mathematics and knowledge of plants and animals, also read a e · Scheer with Philip on the \"protein style\" books, this is he of protein primary understanding of the meaning of life.


Father Bei Shizhang habits have a great influence as a child, father not many words, lead a regular life, he often warned Bei Shizhang, kept things to a fixed location to avoid waste of time. Bei Shizhang has learned from his father ordered good habits of life, and held until now.


The fall of 1921, Bei Shizhang graduated in Tongji University preparatory course, hoping to study abroad, father son, mother know can\'t afford to support study abroad, but is also sold \' houses, and scrape together enough for a cost of $ 800 for his son. Parents strongly support, allowing Bei Shizhang to embarked on a journey of exploring the science of life.


When memories in their own way of life, Bell in the old speech was filled with gratitude to their parents, he said: is the \"mother people, industrious and thrifty and kind spirit of tolerance, as their motto. Determined, to overcome all the difficulties, struggle \". Bei old hope: \"21st century become the century of peace, human happiness in the world. “

Mother was selected for the Walton road to success

Walton is a world famous physicist, winner of the Nobel Prize. His achievement made, effective in his mother\'s teachings. Walton was born in Ireland of Hua Tefu County du more temperature. His father was a priest, is the Ireland Act as moderator of the Church, Ireland Church and prestige.


Walton\'s father is very strict with their children, he does not allow the children to have any deviant behavior. In children, his favourite is the Walton, each time you participate in public activities often bring him around. Father\'s every move, Walton had a profound influence. Walton\'s mother was a woman of noble birth, rich accomplishment, is kindly amiable, and knowledgeable. She is very loving child, but never pampered children, always set strict demands on the learning and character.


Walton although clever, but study results are not good at school. Mothers attach great importance to this issue (parents with the heart), but the reason why children can\'t learn bad. In order to enable children to achieve good results, she decided to give the children change schools (maybe it\'s just as the instinct of a mother under the anxiety reflects).


Walton was 12 years, transferred to a church school. From Walton to the Church from the first day of school, mother to observe the performance of the child.


After some time, Walton on the learning achievement still not to. After the mother through careful observation, finally found the Walton academic reasons not to go on is that he: attaching importance to a number of children of the rich family of little love learning. These rich kids, affluent family living conditions, playing in the school know and not learn by heart. Walton all day and the children together, naturally is not well studied. In order to lead the Walton way, she decided to let Walton transferred again. (After careful study of this choice became Walton of the turning points of life. )


Before long, Walton turned to another school. This school, management orderly, learning air strong. Walton here, a good influence, coupled with the mother be closely associated, patient education, Walton ruled out interference from outside, learning at ease, did not take long, academic achievement. How to choose professional for kids, is a problem not to be ignored in the tutor. Walton on the professional choice, mother is also very hard. At first, the Walton wants to study social sciences. Her Walton\'s physical conditions and hobbies, advised him to study natural sciences. Walton think mother wants to comprehensive and detailed than myself, so he decided to study natural sciences (we are opposed to exceed one\'s duties and meddle in others \' Affairs, but in many cases parents more far-reaching than the children to look for a more comprehensive, but parents must think deeply before line).


Under the direction of the mother, study assiduously, and finally entered Ireland Dublin University. After the school, under the strict training of teachers, he studied hard, brilliant, quickly became a top student of the school, on the road to success. In Ireland after graduating from University College Dublin, and admitted to the University of Cambridge Institute of education with distinction, and become known as the card di laboratory researcher, becoming famous Professor Lu Qinfu\'s right-hand man. At the age of 26, and completed the unit method to generate high speed electronic paper, and later, he successfully used artificial methods change the Atomic system, opened up new approaches to artificial nuclear reaction releases a huge amount of Atomic Energy, laying a foundation for physics, and in 1951 was awarded the Nobel Prize in physics.

Helping others help themselves – NI ping remembered Grandma

As a famous TV presenter of NI ping, in addition to the ease program under the auspices and the pursuit of attachment to the cause, the caring of her image, impressive. When she was shifted from host to film and television stage, successful performance in the film the beautiful big feet, the audience again the same good impression (starring the beautiful truck in 2002 was the film golden rooster Awards, best actress). In the minds of viewers, NI ping the artistic life is hard, hard, natural and smooth, not advocating life.


NI ping\'s success is neither accidental nor luck. When the 2002 autumn in October, NI Ping again returned to his alma mater--Qingdao 39th middle school, when it comes to their growth, said she\'s very grateful to the alma mater of teacher cultivation, as well as teachings of family relatives, including the impact of Grandma\'s own. When it comes to Grandma for her education, NI Ping said with emotion: \"Grandma to her the most simple goodness affects me most. Now, I grew up, just know this is just how valuable an asset. Not many cultural grandmother, restructured me many weaknesses over the years, I always remember what Grandma said \' helping others help themselves.


NI ping at the age of five or six, followed the grandmother lived in Shandong rural. Farmers in Shandong special about face, out of the House call on relatives, adults and children to wear decent. If the children new clothes and look who\'s old clothes are not, to the neighbors will have to borrow, NI ping almost all of the clothes were borrowed.


There\'s something to NI ping, is unforgettable. One day, NI ping\'s mother to NI ping sent us a pair of red shoes, NI ping is pleased to hold shoes full yard run, before going to bed at night, lie inside the Kang shoes on the window sill, just lay down and couldn\'t help but get up to look again, I do not know sleep after reading many times.


The next morning, NI ping woke up, found those little red shoe disappeared on the window sill, bare feet and ran to the courtyard. Little red shoes had been lent his love Lily. NI ping urgent: \"I am not well, this is my mother returned from Qingdao to me, I\'m not wearing what, I do not give sth Woo--Woo--\"NI ping cry, want to immediately go back to that pair of red shoes, but is stopped by grandmother severely sth


At noon that day, NI ping pique did not eat. Later love Lily\'s red shoes or back, but before and after red leather are gone, the shoe is gone as is. NI ping is ill, this pair of red shoes. Grandma naturally distressed, Grandma side hold NI ping, gave her the reason: \"being a really good, people will remember all your life, what not by people helped in order to live a happy life. Man, it really good, whatever you do a good thing or a bad thing, God can be seen from the sky. \"NI Ping never saw Grandma so seriously, so have patience to rub in the point. NI ping from Grandma in the face of try to figure out how important this I have, therefore, the scene forever memories carved in NI Ping.


One winter, NI ping Grandma to a beggar, Grandma put the rice in Cook again, burning in the stove a hot hot meal firewood, only for him. Go out, Grandma said is to let him drink a bowl of hot water again. NI ping puzzling to ask, why is it so good to ask for? Grandma said, they wear less, eat cold would be more cold, the belly has a hot water, sometimes it is worth a coat. People how could not face? Begging really can\'t.


NI ping is Granny\'s since childhood under the influence of quality of the best and most grown up. Have become star NI ping, life simple, approachable, and always help others. When others thank her, NI Ping wants to thank Grandma, she said: \"today I also have some simple, beautiful things, are also those who had to borrow clothes from my folks give. \"Parents are mostly nondescript, no extraordinary feat infection or education of children. NI Ping method of Granny\'s education cannot be considered a child what kind of model for science education, but her attention from small train and guide the child become a good person, and their dedication, which is most in need of family education, parents force of personality is the most important educational elements.

From the wheelchair to the universe

Great theoretical physicist sidifen·weilian·huojin was born on January 8, 1942 from United Kingdom Oxford. That day happens to be a great scientist Galileo 300 anniversary of his death. Stephen Hawking present Lucas mathematics professor at the University of Cambridge, contemporary authority on gravitational physics, its main contribution is the black hole the Hawking radiation mechanism and envisaged the creation of the universe without boundary. The brief history of time, he is the world\'s most famous popular science books. It should be said that hawking is unfortunate: Lu Jialei, total paralysis, was being detained in a wheelchair for over 40 years old, though you can hear, but unable to speak. However he is fortunately: he loved his wisdom of parents-they\'ve know education, more know how strong to face life unbearable weight, boot disabled son clutch of fate by the throat, challenge life limit, realize the value of life, made an outstanding contribution to humanity, shocked the world.

From the wheelchair to the universe


Attention sons material allowed


Hawking parents are both from the University of Oxford graduate, they value knowledge, material things don\'t care. House is old, carpet and furniture have been used up to the ragged old wallpaper peeling off hung in the room. Room was filled with all kinds of books, paintings and around the world gather to singular articles. Child as its parent: room of exercise books, text books, model plane debris and a variety of grotesque gadgets, these things to develop his mind.

Parents integrating interest in teaching, guiding his learning, he saw a large number of extracurricular books is small, learned from various aspects of knowledge, indulging in pleasure reading. Father huojinkaoshengaoerbensi school. All this is a long history, and church schools are famous for teaching quality is outstanding, places competitive admission. But vague talk fast, a bit a few kinks in clumsy but hard hard hawking in 1952, has admitted to this school.
School examinations very strict in each of the final exam is based on the results from high to low discharge rank the students into groups a, b, c. This ranking the University entrance exam in the future of great significance. Second year before the examination, mother saw ranked 24 hawking did not seriously impending examinations. After asking, of what parents know son rote no interest, told his son if the examination cannot be classified entering the top 20 a, had a great influence on the future, and warned his son exam examination requires knowledge of memory, and knowledge useful for sure in the future, one cannot completely, with interest in learning.

Announcement of results that day, parents are ill at ease. Mother heard the footsteps to open the door, see son look very worried with his head, heart and a cool: blew. Was thinking of comfort, hawking to see our parents, and had a great time laughing, PRIM to stand up after a pause: \"now announced: Stephen Hawking 18th place, into a. ”


\"Little naughty, gave her a start! \"Mother touch caress hawking\'s head said.

In 1958, hawking and several students under the direction of one mathematician, began to develop a computer. They come up with some old metal device on the telephone, and through the wires of electric welding root complex, so that your computer up and running, caused a sensation. Of the hete Ford advertiser has thus made a report, this is the first time Stephen Hawking appeared in news media.


Kaseen facies and challenge of death


Stephen Hawking as parents hoped he would enrol in the University of Oxford.

Einstein and create a study of modern cosmology, 1917 the universe finite and infinite, which was raised by the big bang the universe, hawking have a strong interest in thinking. He believed that its basic theory is clear, if further research and exploration, there will be unexpected harvest, so select cosmology.


Son hopes father respects his son\'s choice of medical, hawking in 1962, admitted to the Cambridge Research macro-world cosmology.

Unfortunately ensued. Hawking came home for Christmas the end of 1962, he felt that he had broken down, hands and feet are not flexible. Christmas Eve, he should pour into wine glasses are sprinkled on the tablecloth. This is the study of tropical diseases father speculated that was a year ago in the Middle East have contracted the disease, and sent his son to the hospital for a series of checks.


Doctor\'s diagnosis, such as blue: \"this is a very rare diseases: amyotrophic lateral sclerosis, known as motor neuron disease. International, there is no cure and method of treating this disease. Your son is entering such an early stage of the disease, quickly deteriorated over time, affect the spine of central control movement of the part of the nervous system and brain function, resulting in cell senescence, followed by total paralysis, and finally lead to loss of muscle function of respiration, causing pneumonia, or choke to death. \"Father stay blankly asks:\" do brain injury? ”


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bsp; \"It was not, thinking tube memory in functional areas of the brain without damage. But according to infer that his life is only two years. Whether to notify your son, decided by you and your family. \"Told is confidential? Parents thought painfully. Look thin deep focus, the son of eyes Flash with light of wisdom, they decided to tell the real son.

Hawking heard parents brain blank. Look at the sons of silence, his father asked: \"do you know Socrates? ”

Hawking said nothing to return to their rooms, he of course knew before the execution of the death penalty still reading Socrates. He is also suspended the death penalty, how many things worth doing! Instead of waiting to die, not as good as take alive does interest in useful things.


Parents see pale the next day\'s son appears in the table, knowing a glance view. After hawking sit down calmly said: \"I\'m not going to die, I\'m going to back to school recently. No matter how much time to live, I will stick to it, do some of their favorite things. \"Father tightly hold the son in his arms, he understands that his son has come.


Sitting in a wheelchair into the universe


Hawking returned to Cambridge, to continue his studies, but easier said than done. Worse, with the crutches he often falls was beaten even spoke seriously affected, but this did not impair the essence of his life and thought. He desalination and forgotten diseases, race against time, faster progress, results and more. Disease got cold feet before him: he announced not only live through the doctor\'s life, and Jane · Wilde married and have children.


He thanked father for respect of their choice. Theoretical physics study only, with a clever mind, paper, pens made his disability body with its own rooted in the soil.


He covered with. Again he went to London to open a major new Conference, mind all of a sudden a brainwave, an idea jumped out: If mathematicians Penrose\'s reasoning for the study of the universe, what? He immediately jumped in to justify Penrose\'s theory can be perfectly in conjunction with cosmology, and write it into the doctoral thesis, rave reviews. He was 23 years old to become doctor of physics 1965 case School of theoretical physics at the University of Cambridge researchers.


He is physically deteriorating circumstances never stopped working hard. Cooperation with the Penrose, in his theory of thinking, calculating, just four years, his reputation today is high. This theory of removing obstacles to human to learn more about the universe. In 1966, he of the singularity of the geometry of space-time and Adams award in 1974, he discovered black holes are able to issue energy radiation, papers published in the journal nature, shocked the world, scientists around the world are attracted to became the hottest topic.


Hawking became members of the Royal Society of the age of 32, he is to receive this highest honor in the history of young scientists, and \"Albert Einstein\".

Penalty generation taught to Pandora

A child in its long years of growth, will inevitably make mistakes, large and small, it is a normal phenomenon. When children make a mistake, different parent view different mining methods: some believe that \"small child\" adopt a casual attitude, sit, not corrected, connived at the children\'s fault; there are parents but a storm in the fault of the children raise to a higher plane of principle and two-line struggle, raise a big Rumpus severely reprimanded, and sarcasm, and even penalty kneeling, martial arts such as shadowboxing swordplay etc added to punish their children. The two methods of education are very extreme, very wrong, the former asylum, let the children have not been timely corrected once again repeat the mistake, over time or even into the differences the way of life; the latter put up a pageantry, deeply shakes the soul of the child.


Parents hope that a son will grow up to be successful, punishing children well intentioned is self-evident. But educators believe that children learned from punishment was \"never again\", the penalties can only reduce the incidence of children bad behavior, but learn \"what to do\" and cannot promote child develop good behavior and habits. Punishing this keenly felt pain lessons of \"lessons learned\" and \"malignant stimulation\", often bred resentment in the hearts of young children, and breeding of antagonistic psychology, generated a great deal of harm. Some parents regard to their dignity and authority as parents, underestimate the personality and self-esteem of children, in punishing child, irrational, often dominated by their own emotions, forgetting the purpose of punishment of, making the punishment a parents vent hate and disappointment. Harsh language, rude attitude of parents, and even worse means will harm the child\'s self-esteem and self-confidence, will cause the child stress, negative emotions such as anxiety, fear, aggression, and children skipped school, lie, runaways and other acts of impunity, at the same time leads to child psychology rebel, negative attitude, behavior, degenerate, adverse reactions, seriously affected the healthy personality development of children.


In day-to-day family education, parents taught is very unwise to penalties. Only when the other active education methods to no avail, can only consider sanctions. Parents should understand the purpose of punishment of children is to make it understood \"what not to do\", when a child is undesirable behavior immediately implemented, let the children know the consequences of bad behaviour in a timely manner. \"Qiuhousuanzhang\" disadvantaged child to correct faults. Responsible parents, children will try to take the praise, recognition, incentives such as a positive form of education. Promote appreciation education now. The so-called appreciation education, that is, fully affirmed the children through psychological suggestion constantly fostering children\'s self-esteem and self-confidence, making it not only confidence in the courage to forge ahead, and constant progress of power. According to the relevant statistics show that educators, appreciation education indeed moderate all aspects of some of the original show\'s children become different. Respect for the child to understand, to stretch the minds of children, be willing to accept education, this is the most effective form of education, is also the original meaning of education and very high realms.


For the wrong child, parents should use \"positive stimulation\" method in education. It is said that old educator Jingxiu Sun once saw several children are shaking a small tree, old and not the front sun harangue, after a moment of meditation, he walked past the ear on a small tree, children are seen as strange, curious asked what Sun Lao is doing? Sun and old attitudes a serious, very regretful tone on children said: \"you, small tree in the cry! Lifeblood of shake it faster because you broke! \"Children, shame is flushed, ashamed of his head. Then, old Sun and watered the small Earth up the tree, with the children. Since then, the children not only no longer shake trees, also the nurse tree \"small\" guardian. Old Sun here is to use \"positive stimulation\" approach, children, the children with very rich kid stuff of discourse from the bottom of perceptual awareness for mistakes, errors and correct the error.


Being held at the age of 15 by the Shaoguan Liu, the original home was a very naughty boy, often called by the father, is often the teacher in front of the class in the class gave criticism, satire, and ridicule. Slowly start everywhere and teacher on the dry and soon was criticized by principals in the school, go home again after parents scold, in such a vicious circle, finally becoming criminals. Children will inevitably mistake, parents will beat him only, school teachers are always criticizing him, the child will do? He was not encouraged and supported his negative to the extreme, he felt helpless, will never come again. Of his shame, what the crime, he dares to do anything. Children need to learn, and need of education, parents and teachers to learn how we can educate children. Both cases, may give each responsible for educational responsibility of people to enlightenment. To this end, the parents in their children make mistakes in the process to be severely reprimanded, always criticize, or even cursed, to be persuasive, occasion, combine education with harmony and sense of humor, not to make mistakes in child leave a wound on the soul.

Son of Karl-Witt theory

Karl-Wei\'s son Karl, is a 19th century Germany\'s famous genius, at the age of 8, 9, free use of six languages, a doctor of laws degree from the age of 16. However, who believe that such a gift very high after the birth of a child does not show how smart, but is considered to be Alzheimer\'s disease. Miracles occurred in his father\'s with a good teaching way. Karl-Witt a world known as a classic of early education theory, 100 years to benefit many people, creating numerous outstanding figures. To your child\'s future, but also to the tomorrow of the motherland, we here Karl-Wei\'s early education of classic content to introduce to you.


1. Son of education starting from the mother\'s history of the great mother of all have a good education, mother son play a role not to be submerged in the process of growth. If the mother is only concerned about children\'s health, and ignore the formation of moral and intellectual development of children, that\'s what\'s wrong and irresponsible behavior. Carl-Alexander Witt said, little Carl\'s mother, brave and happy deeply affects the spirit of his son, when the son subsequently entered community, even if the encountered difficulties, or fear, never disappointing. Karl-Witt believes that working mothers cannot be replaced by others, education must be borne by the mother of the child, his own child to others, I am afraid that only humans do, this loss of nature.


2. Press will destroy genius child born with superb natural quality, further to good education, future of children is immeasurable. But parents on gifted education is often fails. Parents often focus on the child\'s talents, rather than emphasizing the cultivation of the Almighty. Children are too high, pressure too much, doing so most children give up halfway.


3. Potential child the law of diminishing marginal utility of the child have potential, but this potential ability is to follow the law of diminishing marginal utility, if the ideal of education from birth to him, then his potential ability may reach 100 degrees. From the age of 5 education, even if it is to impose the best education, his potential can only reach 80 degrees. From the age of 10, regardless of the method of education well, potential will amount to 60 degrees. In other words, education more delayed, less children\'s potential ability to achieve it.


4. Not let children of energy only for digestive Karl-Alexander Witt said, children was born Hou of head half a months, we adhere to scheduled to he breastfeeding, feed water, makes he of biological clock a began on formation law, until he can eat meal, two meal rice Zhijian still only Xu drink no eat other, lest he of gastric always was does not to rest, blood always in gastric Department work and not concentrated in brain. If the energy is used only for digestion of child, then the brain does not get a very good development.


5. Happy is the key to the health of children living in the surrounding environment, if the atmosphere of gloom, children must be indigestion, physically healthy. Therefore, children from the living room from the initial should be in a happy mood. Carl-Alexander Witt said, during fine weather, we often bring children to the fields, let him look at the green field. In fine weather often let him sleep outside the House, to accept the Sun bathing, a breath of fresh air. The baby\'s sleep, we must not wrapped tightly in it. Adhere to the children bathe and massage hands every day, which is able to develop his touch, to promote blood circulation and body sensitivity.

Peng Duanshu on learning hard and vulnerable

Study hard or not? Some say it is not difficult, it is said that difficult. Person says it is not difficult, however, may not be successful, said that difficult people is not necessarily discourage. 18th century Qing dynasty scholar Peng Duanshu has this always wrote a letter to his sons and nephews. He said: \"the world has difficulty difference? To do difficult things become easier; don\'t do easy things become difficult. Is there a difference between hard and easy to do? To learn, difficult becomes easy; is not that easy to become difficult. ”


\"Even if my talent dull, mediocre than others, but I keep learning every day, no slack, there will always be successful one day, then, is not dull and mediocre. Even if my talent wise, to agile, doubly than others; but I can discard these talents and not, then I, and the dull mediocrity of people there will be no different. Confucius \' students, Zeng Shen is is famous for its blunt. But Confucius school, but by Zeng Cen down. This shows that the role of bright and dull, where is the static! ” ?牐?


\"There is a remote place in Sichuan, have two boys: a poor, one rich. One day the monk on the rich and the poor monk said: \' I think of the South China Sea, what do you see? \' Rich monks asking: \' why do you go? \' Poor monk said, \' I live on a water bottle, a rice bowl. \' Rich monk said, \' I didn\'t want to hire boat to have not done over the years. What can you go? \' After a year, poor monk came back from the South China Sea, tell rich monks, rich monks feel very ashamed. ” ?牐?


\"The South China Sea is the mount PuTuo of Zhejiang, is a holy land of Buddhism. From Sichuan province to the South China Sea, did not know there are thousands of miles. Rich boys can\'t go poor monk to became. Human structures can not do the poor monk in Sichuan? ”


\"So clever and quick, is both reliable and unreliable stuff, think smart and agile but not study hard, it will ask for failed. Dull and mediocre, have a restrictive effect on human development, but not completely limited living people found. Not limited to the born to persevere in an effort to learn, is really seeking motivated people.


Peng Duanshu this letter is very famous. It not only encouraging and motivating the Pang family\'s sons and nephews, but also encouraged and inspired many later young people. Because this letter writing sincere, analysis of dialectical, seeking truth from facts and give vivid examples, so have a lot of convincing. ”

Honest more precious than 100 cherry trees

This is a United States story.??


However, the story took place when the place was not called United States, can only be called United Kingdom colonies of North America.??

In a planter\'s House, and has a child under 10 years.??


This day the child\'s father brought home a small axe. He put an axe in the House, they have other things out.


The children think that AX is cute, put it in your hands to play, an axe shining bright, unhappy about? He wanted to give it a try.??


He has a cherry orchard behind the House. In the eyes of children, which is a forest. Cherry tree is a tree, and other trees. Children see adults cut trees with an axe, he has to learn. Cut which does? He selected one of the most fine, and wield the axe cut down, unexpectedly, at once cut off that tree.??


Children are probably done some harm, put back the axe as soon as possible.? 牐?


Father came home, found cherry trees had been cut down a tree, this tree is a good variety, is his favorite.??


Being father to anger, questioning who did something wrong, children walked to his father\'s side, said: \"Dad, I. ” ??


After the father made sure, no punishment the baby. Arms his child in her arms, said: \"I am for your honest and happy, because this is a precious things than 100 cherry trees. ” ?牐?


The child named George Washington. He later became a commander-in-Chief of uprising forces in North America. Under his leadership, defeated United Kingdom colonial, realized the United States independent, Washington was selected as United States first President, now United States capital of Washington was named after his name.??


Washington\'s father wants his son to make a honest man, it makes sense. Honesty is the all important qualities of a moral man must have.??


We know that people are social animals, each individual must rely on society to survive and to develop and apply their talents. This means that everyone must deal with other people in society. Is telling the truth to each other, who is better, easier unite things better to do. If we were you lied to me, I lie to you, who do not know what a sentence is true, the society will fall into chaos. So traditionally the impartial opinion of the Community commended the people who tell the truth, condemn people for telling lies.??


Some people do something wrong, fear of others lose face, or be punished, so afraid to tell the truth. They think make honest words lose.??


In fact, the long term, not honest will suffer heavy losses. Whether a person how to be fair, at most only temporarily deceived minority, and impossible to fool. The truth will always be aware of, at that time, such a person will lose to his trusted.??


Those who tell the truth, is open and aboveboard person, is also a brave man. Error, also afraid to recognize, would it not be a coward! Dare to admit mistakes, that is, to correct the error began. Such a person, of course, be trusted by the others.??

All of us, you can receive certain benefits, telling lies in lying, others taken in. This is the behavior harms others benefit. Such a person, and always to be cast aside by society.

Europe and the family education ideas

(A) reading – Francis · Bacon as early as 450 years ago, States that: \"histories make men wise wises; read, calculus makes precision, philosophy deeply, moral people noble, logic and rhetoric able to contend. \"The Blind Watchmaker ESAB grams, in bench on one side working on the education of three-year old son of Rousseau\'s from Plutarch to the ancient Greece Rome heroes in the understanding of the word. And then, under his supervision, Rousseau had finished eating before the age of seven under lesueer history of the Church and Empire, Na Ni of the history of Venice, and Ovid\'s the Metamorphoses at Cornell, and abundance of the world history of speech, the dead man\'s dialogue, and the universe of Vientiane is explained, as well as Moliere\'s plays. Reading won Rousseau\'s reading ability and comprehension, embarked since childhood caihui, imagination and understanding, inspire a sense of mission, sense of honor and responsibility so that eventually he became one of the great thinkers and writers.


(B) explore talent is talent – people have acquired their natural qualities of a born furniture. Human talent in maternal-fetal in its embryonic form. Talent is to build the primary qualities of genius, human talent is not created, they can explore. Madame Curie has two daughters: yileina·Juli and Ai Fu · Curie, her tutor concept is one of two daughters a certain talent and driving them. When early in the daughter languages, Madame Curie began an exploratory excavation to her. Daughter has just elementary school, Madame Curie let her after school every day an hour in home intelligence activities to further explore their talents. Dang they entered match weiniai middle school Hou, Madame Curie let daughter every day then supplement a section \"special education class\"--in Thor this of laboratory in, by rang·peihan for Irena and Ai Fu taught chemical, Paul long of million taught mathematics, Chavanat Lady taught literature and history, sculpture home Magrou taught sculpture and painting, Müller Professor taught four door foreign language and natural science, and each Thursday afternoon in Paris physico-chemical school in, by Madame Curie taught daughter physics. After a two-year \"special education\" after observation of differential, she finds: big calm, simple, focused and natural daughter Irena character, obsessed with physics and chemistry, she clearly his mission was to be a scientist and research on radium, these are precisely the qualities of the scientists. Small daughter Ai Fu heart jump, full of dreamy, Moody, Marie Curie training she first studied medicine, then guided her research on radium and encouraging her to engage in natural science, but she is not interested in science. Ai Fu talent is art. It is using this to explore the children talented tutor, eventually the eldest daughter Marie Curie yileina·Juli \"synthesis of new radioactive elements\" in 1993 and was awarded the Nobel Prize in chemistry, the little daughter Ai Fu · Curie became an outstanding music educator, and biographies of writers.


(C) sense of honor-the child of honor is often in excitation only if parents are getting laid. Parents and Europe chat will say: \"my daughter Elizabeth is Oscar material. \"\" Hey! Little William angelically 50 Nobel prizes. ”…… Hadeluo·maikemilun in bounce of childhood, youth or in the Eaton public schools, or youth in Balliol, constant mother Sarah 20 years as one day of caution: \"Macmillan, you is different from other children, you want to be in the future United Kingdom Prime Minister! \"The mother since childhood to become a great man\'s sense of excitation, Macmillan worked hard, and with great concentration and explorations, finally twice in 1957 served as the United Kingdom Prime Minister. Freud\'s sense-comes from a Jewish family education. He was 6 years old, father Prov him: more than 1000 years we Jews are driven, oppression, exploitation, stigmatization and under tragic circumstances of the massacre, but what the Jews can long survive? Jews what the intelligence of an average higher than 51 times times of all ethnic groups throughout the world? Why the Jews control of community, national, and World Bank, the money supply, economic and commercial? Because, to diligence, hard work, sensible and moderate Jewish times. King \' s revenge danger causes common action figure-strong Jewish family education, inspire Freud\'s sense: \"my parents were Jewish. I am also a Jew. I can never understand why I\'m able I nation ashamed of my ancestors, I often feel that they have inheritance our forefathers to defend their sanctuary with all kind of contempt for all passion, so I can be that great moment in history and would willingly give everything to me. \"It is this figure made by the King \' s revenge angry strong excitation of the Jewish sense, Freud eventually humans created the\" psychoanalysis \"and\" Psychology \".


(D) independent personality-the Nobel Prize for literature winner nuobote·luosu trenchant: \"those who in childhood was lonely man than to be loved people more in the future will succeed; a person who does not have the spirit of solitude, is unlikely to be a great man. \"Only in the furrow with solitude-free environment, to read, think and create extension, to mind exchange of inspiration, observe silently thought to build concept, various kinds of concepts was born – thoughts, as Pasi·Kaer said:\" thought people great. \" Isn\'t it? --, Hegelian, Gandhi\'s ideas of the Stanislavski system.


In May 1979, the withdrawal of Margaret Thatcher as a United Kingdom woman Prime Minister when moving into a remarkable 10th Downing Street said: \"all my achievements, thanks to my father Roberts on my education. \"Luo Moskowitz is United Kingdom gelanwensen small city of a grocery store owner. When Mrs Thatcher had at the age of 5, he taught his daughter: all things must have their own, using their brains to judge things is, do not conform. In daily life, Roberts focused on training his daughter \"rigorous, accurate, attention to detail, right and wrong the strict distinction between\" independent personalities. When Mrs Thatcher when she was 7, Roberts took his daughter to the library

Go to, allows her to see only three books: biographies, history and political books. He guided daughter engage in extraordinary political career in the future. Margaret Thatcher early life light hard, without bathroom, hot water and indoor toilets come in the House, something she has no valuable, rare to see a movie or drama. It\'s not Roberts had no money, but he insisted on for her daughter created a frugal and plain, hard work, though it conquer the atmosphere up. He took his daughter to the aromatic Gold Street every Sunday the Church, let her listen to the sermon of the priest talk. At home, Roberts and daughter debates on various issues, to make her cool and resourceful, language brilliant and full of impressive and penetrating words of art. At the age of 11, Thatcher entered Chesti girls \' schools. Chesti debate at a debate club, she spoke to agile, viewpoints, unique, accurate, magnificent, and the students to throw in the towel.

Is development of the daughter, independent personality Roberts, before Mrs Thatcher from an ordinary girl, eventually to become a term for three United Kingdom Prime Minister, the power 12 years ago, politicians and maximalist wield absolute power in a part of a country on the world political stage \"Thatcherism\" founder.

Don\'t give specific baby dress up

Was traditional \"patriarchal\" and the \"unfilial has three, no designation for large\" of concept effect, also is has part of family will very hope has a boy carry, especially home in the has Shang generation dad mother of family, for next generation health boys female of things more is is care, and once and expectations does not match the, will is easy to given has children intangible of pressure, serious who more will with to children taught children Shi of bad effect, and \"specific dressed\" is may performance out of a deviation parenting way.


Apart from girl was dressed into boy of dress up, some family also will because desire health a girl, and to boy dressed into girl of looks, China Taiwan Linkou Chang Gung Memorial Hospital children mental branch Huang Yafen physicians said, if dad mother just occasionally to child for \"specific dressed\", on child of gender identity, and does not caused too large of effect, but if dad mother let home in the daughter long-term wearing male clothes, or let men children do girls dressed, will has may will led children produced gender identity confusion of problem, especially Dang children growth to has adolescent, second features gradually appears Shi, more easy let children of psychological produced contradictions of plagued.


For example,, has gender identity problem of men children, will like wear girls of clothes, he also will identity around of female, he think Dang girls, will was more of concern and appreciation; also some people will to this contradictions performance in role played of level Shang, do specific by do of thing, and will with dreams to performance fantasy, for example, small boy will dream to own is girl, and enjoy various Dang girl of benefits.


Gender identity formation processes


\"MOM, I\'m a boy? There are girls? What about the mother is a boy or a girl? \"Adults taken for granted issues for child care, you just learn to talk, but it is a matter hard to have a clear understanding of when MOM and dad tell him or her\" like you and dad are boys \"or\" tell mother\'s girl \", we for child care, and society of men and women is nothing more than just two terms.


But when it came to the age of 4 or 5, children gradually because the experience of getting along with other children, and therefore have a gender different from the other children of his own \"abstract\" thought concept, and will begin a curiosity to explore gender issues.


Exactly when did people begin to form? Everyone must be gender formation process, that can develop into a healthy sex.


For children growing up in the world, every day is full of fresh, child through observation of things around at any time, to establish the cognitive structure of the self, and for gender recognition, not only by parents, personnel of their daily environment, things have become child-shaped plastic pipe to their own views.


Parents often process through bath, to tell the gender of a child, usually in the process of formation of gender identity, boy dad through identity, while the girls mother through identity, and by learning to gradually to establish gender characteristics of the self.


Therefore, some scholars have also pointed out that, if the parents when a child in the process of growing up, due to certain factors, not by children side or give inappropriate child discipline, children will likely be so parents onto its offensive, attitude transformed into some kind of gender bias.


On this point, Huang Yafen physicians also said that, in fact, parents are not particularly need to do more with their same-sex other children get along for a long time and accompanied, as long as the relationship between the parents is harmonious and healthy, children can study in the observation of daily life, understanding of differences between the sexes, and to establish a proper gender mode.


Gender identity confusion solution road


\"Gender identity confusion\" problem can be simply defined as: on the gender identity, distort, conflicts and problems, so the inherent imbalance of pressure, which means that these people long for sex, had a conflict with real sex, at the same time, they are likely to occur on the interpersonal relationship problems, and male and female are not easy to establish a good relationship.


Gender differences on the level of confusion there, understanding child gender identity after the process of establishing, for the parents to give children \"specific dress up\" can lead to confused gender identity issues, Huang Yafen doctors pointed out that, if a child did emerge for gender identity themselves when distressed, you should begin to look for piping to be addressed.


If you prefer, you can start with reading psychology books related to, or friend to pour out your mind, to attempt to adjust the mind idea of self. Further practice of underage children to children in hospital administration, whereas adult children to seek professional psychiatric therapy.


In addition, Huang Yafen physicians also said that the school psychological guidance system and social welfare units also provide consulting, to help people in need out of the Valley of the heart, again built for self-gender identity.


Your child in a pluralistic society in gender roles


Boys should be brave, not crying, girls the best to be gentle, to be spoiled, Huang Yafen physician said, now more than parents should abandon the idea of, and respect for the child\'s personal attributes, giving more space for the development of, to let children in fast-changing environment in the future, with more valuable personality trait, to tide over the life of any possible oncoming crisis.


Gender and sexual


Gender (sex)


1. Emphasizes that biological differences between men and women, mainly from the men and women based on the difference of the reproductive organs.
2 distinction between men and women are \"innate effect\" effect.


(Gender)
1. content of the decision by socio-cultural gender roles, is a result of social construction.
2. the social gender

Encourage, look forward to working with teach, differences between men and women, this is the \"effect the day after tomorrow\" effect.

Gender roles and gender identity


Gender role (sex role)


1. regular and sex roles (gender role) confused, or is treated as the same meaning.
2. refers to a kind of expectations of gender patterns of behavior or activity, is the social to the personal expectations of gender behavior.


Gender identity (sex identity)
1. refers to a person on his or her physiological gender nature of cognitive, psychological concept of self-awareness that they are male or female.
2. personal self vested in the self-awareness of gender.