\"Cruel\" parents

In the United States has seen, some three or four years when children play, fell fall, guests to steady, parents keeping, and United States parents when shopping go to the market, hand pulling a child, or adult striding in front, children in hot pursuit on one side, whether children tired or not tired, just don\'t hold back.

Not United States parents do not love their children, nor they are busy, and ever gasp to look after the children, but are intended to cultivate children\'s independent survival, self-reliance and self-capacity to meet the needs of survival and development in the future. From this vision does not say much for the Americans. However, some parents do? Is a separate scene, parents \' love is not deep, caring not say detailed. The result? Develop children have grandiose aims but puny abilities, underestimate the labour, lazy wayward, fear of fear of tired, lack of independent living ability of experienced some setbacks, a little difficult, it was all at sea, almost into a number of problems of children.

Japan about 17 members of the public sector organizations to visit Shanghai residents at home, Japan mother son of way to make the Chinese people an eye-opener. Japan child, grabbed a wonton stuffed into the mouth. Landlord wanted to stop in China, but his mother said: \"don\'t worry about him, so he knows not to eat. \"The child ate a mouthful, and frowned. Japan kids fell down and crying for help, see no help after and had to climb up. Japan mother says: \"let children attempt fails, to be successful. ”

Japan mother why children are \"failed education\"? One Japan scholars explained: everything depends on one\'s own efforts, efforts for the kids, for the failure of children to education, so that they learn the skills in the failed, in order to support themselves in the future. Japan parents with this urgency of education for their children, making Japan children from an early age developed a fear of frustration and competing tenacious character.