1. selection of the wishes of the child, respect for babies
Many parents have recognized that in deciding whether to let the baby when learning talent, as well as what kind of talent, to respect the choice of baby. According to the investigation of the parent-child, 68.8% MOM and dad believes that baby want to learn their choice of talent, because of inherent interest is the power of learning.
Step 1 when the baby is not yet time to learn about the various art activities, do not directly asked whether he wanted to learn.
If you are not sure whether the baby is willing to learn, and only you-on impulse-see colleagues reported interest in the child class, immediately asked the baby \"do you want to learn to paint? \"\" Do you want to learn the piano? \"Children and effect your mood easily baby around, he would say that want to learn. You need to provide your baby with a variety of talent perceptual knowledge and experience to watch his wishes. For example, it is free zone activities of him some talent, interest classes, describes what they are doing to him. If friends have children attending schools talent, you can take the baby to his home to play, and enjoy other people\'s talent works, try to play a play, as in touch on the piano, ballistic missile.
And baby talk to separate skills
Time to talk, first helps babies remember all he saw art activities.
For example, \"last Sunday, baby saw what teacher Wang with children playing in the children\'s Palace? \"\" Yesterday, we play in the monthly home to what? \"When baby 1.1 point recalled he met art activities, then asked him what fun, interesting. If he says more interested in the art activities, be sure to ask clear reasons, to determine if he was interested in art activities itself.
When determining the baby does for certain activities after the favourite, you try to use the baby understand language told him to learn the skills needed to pay the price, such as the piano every day keep practising. You can reference the baby know examples of children explained to him, although he does not fully understand the costs, but still want to say. This number can help the baby to decide whether he is to learn this art. If he wants to learn, and when the break in the future, just to remind you before he talked, gradually develop decided to have a sense of his own.
After many conversations, if you feel your baby what kind of talent and not particularly interested in, then don\'t because their urgent heart, let him to go to the select a class. You must relax the heart, because the baby is not talent, he will have more time to enjoy other free play activities, and the intellectual and emotional development is resulting in the game. If the baby wants to learn a lot of talent, you have to tell him you can select only one of them. You like him of the benefits and costs of art activities are explained again, let him choose. Once you have decided, establish agreements with him, such as how long, how long does it take to practice every day, and so on.
2. interest in baby care and training in the first
If you decide to let baby talent and identified learning project, purpose of training talent, you have to be very clear: to respect and protect the baby\'s interest in art, through the process of learning made him more love this talent.
Development of preschool children are not mature, attention cannot be focused for a long time, easily distracted, finger muscle development does not fully mature, and so on, and talent and learning has a lot of skill and attention to health requirements, so baby in skills may not meet the requirements. In addition, preschool is a baby during the rapid development of intrinsic interest, they are curious and love to many new things, these seeds of interest if you get good care, babies can get a lot of fun, even becomes the driving force of his future career and life. So you will not haggle on the talent training in skills requirements and would kill him valuable intrinsic interest. Natural intrinsic interest, once lost, it\'s hard to make up for.
You need to select a talent of importance to the protection and interest in training baby teacher or teaching talent. Professional standards of teachers is important, but the teacher\'s teaching approach and whether it can protect your baby\'s interest is more important. If teaching ignores the baby feel, baby began to appear are not even interested in straw, you need to communicate with the teacher. In the case of a last resort, would rather see the baby stops this talent and class.
3. look baby mood changes in the learning process
When the baby for talent and learning, you need to observe the baby\'s emotional, after each lesson exercises before you go to class and what are the emotional changes, and not just concerned about his learning content.
Many parents have this experience: baby at first always enjoy going, then slowly cooling. Therefore, when you find baby appear reluctant to learn when, consider what factors affect his enthusiasm to learn. Is practice time after class is too long? Exercise which requires more frequent rest periods? Course remained at the level he acquired that became boring? Or is it because he does not meet the requirements, no sense of accomplishment and a time to lose interest? Special event had hit confidence in the baby? Baby talk to the teacher of his classes, gradually find out, make timely adjustments to avoid his interests completely lost.
4. free time and study with baby
And the baby alone time is very valuable. MOM and dad to be bent, as large as a baby and kids, learning, practice with baby. And you learn, will let the baby but also enjoy the learning process.
Whether you are proficient in all you want to start from scratch, and baby synchronous learning. Not being taught role, humble attitude along with the baby to learn, even to the baby ask for advice he learned every day, and he is doing the same work, discuss with him how can do better.
And babies learn the most common problems are: MOM and dad always like the finger next to point. Pointing too many babies are confused, distracted, tired of learning. If you treasure and
Po learning process with recorded, you will be surprised to find himself from beginning to end is constantly talking, release the baby cannot understand, accept instructions. In fact, how do you like to be patient, often to shut up and keep quiet. Even if the baby is doing wrong, he corrected himself, he will have more active study harder, otherwise too much of the blame, he will feel terrible. Less pointing and criticism, baby will feel that they are trusted by parents, he is capable.5. do not take the baby with someone than
MOM and dad often learn motive power in order to make the baby more, a common trick of Chinese parents to motivate him-took the baby to learn to be a good comparison of children, this will let the baby be pressure.
For instance on the baby said, \"you see xiaoqiang now will play a full piece, you quickly catch up with him\", \"Lily\'s brush is neatly written, why are you still writing crooked? \"Over time, some babies will avoid learning; combative heart strong baby will focus on the competition with others, in no mood to enjoy happiness of learning and talent, will eventually lose interest in the art itself.
6. let baby from in their efforts to find a sense of achievement
Learning skills is often a process of continuous exercise, test of the baby\'s insistence. If you want the baby keep practising talent, MOM and dad need to adhere to the time to note the efforts made by the baby, constant feedback for his efforts, help him from every last bit of efforts to find and give a sense of achievement.
For example, together with the baby, his calligraphy, art paintings, hanging in the House decoration. Regardless of the level of the work, as long as the baby the effort can be. When babies learn new words, new painting, must be kept up to date on the wall of the old works. Made character sets, collected old album, gift for friends and family. If the baby is learning piano, you can record music he played, when you do the housework or chat the break with my family, do the background music. Babies will feel his effort is successful, and joy unlimited for your family.
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