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9.3.11

Parents sitting down and talking to children

A return trip the old teacher, said when speaking in Australia in: Australia squatting for parents and children left a very deep impression on me. See this scenario for the first time, was at a friend\'s House. One weekend, they had a young couple and the children to dinner, when the two year old child were filled, when you want to go under, the parents sitting down talking to children. At that time, he was surprised, thinking that it was her unique form of education and not ask. Another weekend, when a Secretary of the school mate pedicle I live to her home, to spend two days on weekends, I see this moving scene over and over again.


Mate pedicles with a pair of lovely children, when we are going to the supermarket, four-year old son was unhappy because of sister to get in the car. Mate pedicle in door of squat, two hand living son hands, back to back, face to face, eye face up to the child, sincerely say \"Luo Aimu, who to get in the car is not important, right? \"Luo aim land looking mother knowing nodded, got into the car and sat down next to her sister.


The next morning, we and our children to the Park, Luo Aimu and sister living, when the ducks to the Lake to see playing, tripped accidentally, tears in his eyes rolling in, to flow out in a minute. At this point, mate pedicle and naturally squat down, kindly son said: \"you have is not a small baby, do you? You\'re a big boy, stumbles that\'s OK, right? \"At this point, I also learn aside squatting down and faced Luo Aimu said:\" Yes, you\'re a big boy, right? \"The child was at once admitted in tears, were proud to play.


At this point, I can\'t help with the mate pedicle talked to their children\'s education. She said: \"when I was young, my parents was that talking with us. We believe that children are human beings, is also independent of the person, only because they are shorter than us, we should talk squatting down with them sth \"


Australia or what others think of the mother: parents sitting down and talking with children on the same height, talking to each other with the children back to back, face to face, eye, embodies the parents respect for children, things that embody the adult children or problem serious and cordial manner. At the same time, parents can whisper to patient persuasion and education, instead of from top to bottom, but don\'t have to loudly berate.


Use this form of education, will enable the children realise with the adults were equal, respected person, is conducive to training children independent of self-esteem personality childhood; using this form of education can help children to take their problems seriously disadvantage or; it also created a receptive to the good mood of education for children, rather than make children deaf ear or psychology.


I think this is a very specific education method, embodiment of the relationship between the parents about their children\'s education idea and also from one side reflects the child\'s capacity and level of education.


If we always stood facing a child, we distance the child, not only is the height of dozens of centimeters, but the distances between the generation and generation, is a heart with no communication between a heart distance. Squatting down, listen, on children, is a great of concern and understanding, is children to accept of a care; squatting down, listen, children away from we of distance on will shortened; squatting down, listen, is we concern children inside world of a way; squatting down, listen, create out of is a democratic, and harmonious of mutual respect of adult and children of relationship, then no than this more important of thing has.

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