While the children were frustrated was irritable

Each child will often suffer setbacks in their daily lives. Take their environment. In their eyes, is a very confusing parts of the world. No matter how hard they try, but on the level of their development, they cannot figure out why most things will happen, what next and how to solve the problem. At the same time, they still is germinating the idea of independence, so as to encourage their adventures from the parents to give their security and their control. When young\'s experiment to try their abilities when the parents are alarmed about their this spirit of exploration. However, children do not really know their limit, so he tried to get things tend to be his libunengji. He wants to do certain things, but lack of movement necessary to the success of control and rational understanding. In addition. When he needs cannot be met when he can\'t stand. When when he wants something, he\'d like to have, because in his way of thinking, and vote \"after\" of the concept.
So, 2 is why the children were frequently lost his temper, his fate is always lightning to overthrow their desire for things not to, their aspirations and ambitions, always work in practice. Therefore, he felt overwhelmed. In short, his life is a frequent setbacks experienced. Of course, is excited when his success.
In addition to frustration, child care or lack of language skills to achieve their own ends and calm his disappointment. In our life, language plays a very important role in coping with setbacks. Therefore it is not difficult to understand, why was the child lost his temper and his expression of limited ability. Young children can understand than his actual use of words. He might have solve the dilemma of opinion, but was not in communication with others when expressed in language very well. Therefore, his emotions will be more and more excited, his frustration is growing.
Finally, children still lack the ability to control emotions. We grow up mature later learned how to suppress their emotions and avoid emotional, but children do not have these skills. When he humbled a strong feeling to the height, when you need to vent, he will certainly be looking for a chance to vent. But his method of venting is very limited. He cannot find anyone complaining, nor holding back in their hearts do not say, do? it will have to temper. He will suddenly lying on the ground, sharp howl, punched and kicked, hit his head. At this time, he was like a volcano, to want to calm down, have to be a first blast off is not available at the top of their own.
Therefore, we can think, anger is a natural phenomenon in the development of children. Some children to send a small temper occasionally, but others are often hit. There is no doubt that a child\'s character also plays an important role. The emotion is very strong children to temper is fierce. Difficult to adapt to the different experiences of the child\'s ability to endure setbacks may also be low.　　 Attention is not easy to concentrate on children often can turn our attention to other matters and avoid provocation. General causes of the above are caused by the child lost his temper. Of course, if a child for some reason are suppressed, then he is likely to be frequently lost his temper. In these cases, in addition to lose his temper, often there are other clues (sleep problems, not happy) will tell you where the problem. Finally, there are diseases of children will often throw a tantrum. If a child lost his temper when too much (for example, more than three times a day), or a temper for too long (more than 15 minutes), or temper of age is over, children have been able to seamlessly use of language to express their ideas (the age of four) when he was still often angry, you should consider these possibilities.