Was traditional \"patriarchal\" and the \"unfilial has three, no designation for large\" of concept effect, also is has part of family will very hope has a boy carry, especially home in the has Shang generation dad mother of family, for next generation health boys female of things more is is care, and once and expectations does not match the, will is easy to given has children intangible of pressure, serious who more will with to children taught children Shi of bad effect, and \"specific dressed\" is may performance out of a deviation parenting way.
Apart from girl was dressed into boy of dress up, some family also will because desire health a girl, and to boy dressed into girl of looks, China Taiwan Linkou Chang Gung Memorial Hospital children mental branch Huang Yafen physicians said, if dad mother just occasionally to child for \"specific dressed\", on child of gender identity, and does not caused too large of effect, but if dad mother let home in the daughter long-term wearing male clothes, or let men children do girls dressed, will has may will led children produced gender identity confusion of problem, especially Dang children growth to has adolescent, second features gradually appears Shi, more easy let children of psychological produced contradictions of plagued.
For example,, has gender identity problem of men children, will like wear girls of clothes, he also will identity around of female, he think Dang girls, will was more of concern and appreciation; also some people will to this contradictions performance in role played of level Shang, do specific by do of thing, and will with dreams to performance fantasy, for example, small boy will dream to own is girl, and enjoy various Dang girl of benefits.
Gender identity formation processes
\"MOM, I\'m a boy? There are girls? What about the mother is a boy or a girl? \"Adults taken for granted issues for child care, you just learn to talk, but it is a matter hard to have a clear understanding of when MOM and dad tell him or her\" like you and dad are boys \"or\" tell mother\'s girl \", we for child care, and society of men and women is nothing more than just two terms.
But when it came to the age of 4 or 5, children gradually because the experience of getting along with other children, and therefore have a gender different from the other children of his own \"abstract\" thought concept, and will begin a curiosity to explore gender issues.
Exactly when did people begin to form? Everyone must be gender formation process, that can develop into a healthy sex.
For children growing up in the world, every day is full of fresh, child through observation of things around at any time, to establish the cognitive structure of the self, and for gender recognition, not only by parents, personnel of their daily environment, things have become child-shaped plastic pipe to their own views.
Parents often process through bath, to tell the gender of a child, usually in the process of formation of gender identity, boy dad through identity, while the girls mother through identity, and by learning to gradually to establish gender characteristics of the self.
Therefore, some scholars have also pointed out that, if the parents when a child in the process of growing up, due to certain factors, not by children side or give inappropriate child discipline, children will likely be so parents onto its offensive, attitude transformed into some kind of gender bias.
On this point, Huang Yafen physicians also said that, in fact, parents are not particularly need to do more with their same-sex other children get along for a long time and accompanied, as long as the relationship between the parents is harmonious and healthy, children can study in the observation of daily life, understanding of differences between the sexes, and to establish a proper gender mode.
Gender identity confusion solution road
\"Gender identity confusion\" problem can be simply defined as: on the gender identity, distort, conflicts and problems, so the inherent imbalance of pressure, which means that these people long for sex, had a conflict with real sex, at the same time, they are likely to occur on the interpersonal relationship problems, and male and female are not easy to establish a good relationship.
Gender differences on the level of confusion there, understanding child gender identity after the process of establishing, for the parents to give children \"specific dress up\" can lead to confused gender identity issues, Huang Yafen doctors pointed out that, if a child did emerge for gender identity themselves when distressed, you should begin to look for piping to be addressed.
If you prefer, you can start with reading psychology books related to, or friend to pour out your mind, to attempt to adjust the mind idea of self. Further practice of underage children to children in hospital administration, whereas adult children to seek professional psychiatric therapy.
In addition, Huang Yafen physicians also said that the school psychological guidance system and social welfare units also provide consulting, to help people in need out of the Valley of the heart, again built for self-gender identity.
Your child in a pluralistic society in gender roles
Boys should be brave, not crying, girls the best to be gentle, to be spoiled, Huang Yafen physician said, now more than parents should abandon the idea of, and respect for the child\'s personal attributes, giving more space for the development of, to let children in fast-changing environment in the future, with more valuable personality trait, to tide over the life of any possible oncoming crisis.
Gender and sexual
Gender (sex)
1. Emphasizes that biological differences between men and women, mainly from the men and women based on the difference of the reproductive organs.
2 distinction between men and women are \"innate effect\" effect.
(Gender)
1. content of the decision by socio-cultural gender roles, is a result of social construction.
2. the social gender
Gender roles and gender identity
Gender role (sex role)
1. regular and sex roles (gender role) confused, or is treated as the same meaning.
2. refers to a kind of expectations of gender patterns of behavior or activity, is the social to the personal expectations of gender behavior.
Gender identity (sex identity)
1. refers to a person on his or her physiological gender nature of cognitive, psychological concept of self-awareness that they are male or female.
2. personal self vested in the self-awareness of gender.
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