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Help children develop positive self image

A good self-image of children often feel that they are welcome, and confident, can actively overcome difficulties and bold work. Poor self-image of children often feel is not satisfactory, inferiority, and timid and afraid of doing something wrong. Self image, once formed, it is difficult to change. From small help children develop positive self image, the children will be lifelong. How to help?


1, creating opportunities for self-expression, independent children to do, such as washing the handkerchief, button button, finishing things such as toys, hand; House of friends visit, children may be encouraged for the guests to draw a picture or sing a song. Children succeeded in doing one thing at a time, performing a show, painted a picture and so on, will experience that successfully bring joy and confidence.


2, a very positive child. Adults identifying child\'s strengths, strengths, give timely recognition can also properly in front of public recognition. Such children will feel they have many advantages, is that we all like children.


3, capture child a good start, and told him. Child independently learn to lace up for the first time, after falling for the first time herself did not cry, first active toys to the neighbors children playing, particularly carefully observed in adults, and praised in a timely manner. For those who feel poor self image of children, adults have to concern them bit by bit of progress, and encouraged in a timely manner, this will make your child feel self-image is a little better.


Level 4, understanding child mental and physical development, correct evaluation of the child. Children\'s self-evaluation ability is poor, they tend to evaluation as a mirror for adults, children gradually see their image from the mirror. Size adult characteristics should be based on the child\'s age, ability, carefully and correctly evaluating children requires not too high, too low.


5, do not harm the child\'s self-esteem. Children are going to make mistakes or do bad things, and adults to respect children, the children, not to children in front of criticism. \"One son\" of traditional practices is not a modern educational methods, also do not take the advantages and disadvantages of their children than other children, inappropriate criticism could easily hurt your child\'s self-esteem, lack of self-esteem of children is extremely difficult to establish a positive self-image.

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