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9.3.11

Why be afraid of \"foreign nanny\" to China?

It is learnt that before and after the Spring Festival will have more than the first batch of more than 20 have a college education of Filipina domestic laborers (commonly known as \"Filipino\") landing city, which was first introduced by domestic companies in Shenzhen matchmaking \"foreign nanny\". More than more than 20 \"Filipino\" people although not to, but has now been booked up in Shenzhen to Hong Kong people and foreign nationals. At present, relevant departments and services sector in the Philippines to negotiate on issues such as salary, ready to enter more \"Filipino\". \"Foreign nanny\" message to China
A spread, in the departments of labor security and has caused little reaction in the community, we so afraid of some \"foreign nanny\" to the employment in China?


Ministry of labour and social security made it clear that: individual economic organizations and individual citizens are currently not hiring foreigners. Because the Chinese Government encouraged domestic shortage of talent technologies, skills, and management and the special job of introducing and that complies with the conditions of employment of foreign personnel to China. In other words, foreign nanny is not part of the qualified foreign personnel. I think it\'s kind of hard to justify, since ancient times, there is a Chinese saying goes: 72 rows, row row hero, and all walks of life have their own \"talent\" does domestic industries cannot have talent? Recognize this line senior talent, introduced several nannies are no big deal. Furthermore, this line of \"talent shortage\" has become a fact, demand-side market and domestic market is unable to meet domestic needs, we can introduce a group to fill the gap.


Ocean nanny has attracted high attention, public discussion, mainly our nanny industry concept of misunderstanding. Baby sitter is very simple calling concept is widespread, as long as you do at home, will take care of children, the elderly or patients on the list; degree first free culture on the line, which is a primary school, then later gradually becomes a junior high school, high school, deal request chat gave lessons or supplementation to children and the elderly, since then does not appear to rise. In a job fair on, unit salary $ recruiting male nanny, has caused the \"Nanny is not talent\" over on January 27 this year, the Yangzi evening news to the \"Nanny will meet\" to university students entitled report on the fair news, college students do Nanny is it somewhat do work unworthy of one\'s talents? While the United States attaches great importance to training of nurse, some University set a nurse professional domestic such as Wuhan also appeared \"home school\", but the training was very simple, and temporary and management with learning of loose and so on. Contrast cannot but let us see the nanny industry at home and abroad the backward and the potential demand for advanced nurse distance. Maybe we are not afraid of some foreign nannies, but that do not have to charge so much to please the God of foreigners doing these \"little things\".


For decades hundreds of foreign nannies to China cannot change the nanny market situation as a whole, but they can stimulate the development of domestic industry to speed up, train a number of high-quality domestic talent as soon as possible to meet market demand. Ministry of labor and social security in \"Filipino\" at a time when preparing to enter China, announced that its illegal main identity is illegal, no employment license for foreigners, and is not ready to break in the near future, intention is clear, to protect China\'s domestic market. Protection is not the best way, open is the long-term strategy, open China should have the courage and ability to face challenges, fully closed the entrance to the market is very inappropriate, in my humble opinion, may wish to engage in a pilot in Shenzhen, step by step, it would be all. Shenzhen\'s development, not in the last name \"funded\" last name \"public\" arguments do stand up? Test of time, not to discuss, seriously, from a broken mountain village into a world-famous city?

Monthly salary of 1000 euro, Chinese Nanny in Europe very popular

Lift the nanny, people often have thought was known as \"the world\'s most professional nanny\", \"Filipino\". However, as the world attention to China rising Chinese nanny also \"Bullish\", even the picky family also began competing in Europe employing Chinese nanny.



Chinese nanny demand 5 years up to 10 times times


Headquartered in Germany Hamburg Abaetetuba employment agency, with branch offices in 14 European countries. Official laimina told reporters the company, from 2000 to now, requested the Chinese nanny employment rose 10 times the number of employers in Europe. An employment agency under the company had to get through the day 15 Chinese nanny. The nanny has the characteristics of a common, is to speak standard Mandarin, with a variety of skills.


Different from the past dominated by Chinese families employers, now employed nanny customers are mostly Chinese, have a good opinion of China or European families of adopted Chinese children. Moreover, employing Chinese nanny of the family generally high cultural level, and the Chinese culture, belonging to the middle class. Laimina said: \"due to the sharp increase in demand of the European people on China\'s nanny, now they are the most intractable problem is high-quality Chinese nanny could not be found. ”


This reporter has learned, nanny monthly basic at around 1000 euros in China, more than four rooms or family rooms with more than two children, income will increase by 300 euros. And those who could drive, to escort children to school, experienced \"steward-level\" China nurse, you get more than 1800 euros monthly salary. Of course, apart from take care of the children, the elderly and the disabled, in accordance with the law, the caregiver needs a rest over the weekend. Under normal circumstances, employers will travel abroad with them each year.


Learn Chinese from the nanny culture


Rogers is the Germany Siemens engineer, daughter kasiting had just reached the age of two, but she knows Chinese more than German. This is because her parents to let her grow up, economic integration in the environment of increased competitiveness in the world, and upfront investment. Their governess Miss LI said Rogers demanded that she and kasiting only to communicate in Chinese. They are prepared to go to Shanghai on vacation during the summer, her daughter experience Chinese culture. In this regard, Germany paboen Professor, Institute of Europe, many European families are scrambling to hire nanny with children in China, and China\'s economic take off, more and more important in Chinese relevant.


At the same time, raise the overall quality of the Chinese Nanny is a reason. Currently, in Europe and China nanny by domestic laborers, Chinese immigrants and international students, and other components. Most of these people have a college degree or above literacy and foreign language and many other skills. In addition, most Europeans are more willing to do a pool, rather constrained time nanny job, which also provided more opportunities for Chinese nanny.


Least effort male nurse


In Europe, the nanny is called \"home economics\" is \"a pay attention to the art of occupation\". According to Labour Department statistics, at present the EU is missing at least 200,000 nanny.


At present, in the European domestic market, the most popular male nurse. Is different from female nurse, these men will assume more handling furniture, maintenance of equipment, maintenance of electrical appliances, cleaning the car technically difficult chores, especially nursing homes, hospitals and welfare institutions, the shortage of such personnel, and their income is higher than the female nurse one-third.

Knowledge of parents wanting education nurse

National family education guidance 2005 seminar recently held in Shanghai. Shanghai Baoshan district, a report on survey of 1200 were mothers of infants aged, Shanghai families received professional training education \"nanny\" considerable demand.
Survey shows that 78.1% \'s parents will be handed over to nannies or grandparents of infants with, as the child of parents \' educational background, income increase, family on \"knowledge nanny\" demand is getting higher and higher. \"I am willing to pay the relatively high cost of nanny, but only if the caregiver must reach a certain level, right now, this than looking for a good investment units are difficult. \"Monthly income of over $ 6,000 Luo said. On the cultural level, 90% per cent of mothers want to nanny\'s level of education reached high school, including 52.4% requirements nanny to tertiary education. And my mother\'s best hope to get education \"nanny\" infantile games and eating to help the project.
Many nannies are Shanghai resident population, and have experience with children, and good governance. However, their lack of professional training, lack of effective methods of 0~3sui early psychological nursing care of infants and young children, often is one of the mother is worried about factors. The head of the investigation, \"said education nanny\" demand is one of the main curriculum of early childhood education guidance in the future, to meet with dependant on the mastering of the scientific concept of parental knowledge and skills needs, ensure the high quality of scattered children at home.

Hiring a nanny child should pay attention to?

Parents want to invite to a good caregiver, how can I go to a good babysitter? Good conditions for nannies is what? For reference here a few suggestions:


(1) nurse to be responsible. Work of raising children is a complex, detailed, trivial piece of work is not negligent, especially in infants is a physical and mental development of an important period in the period, this period of growth and development of children, has a big influence on his life; child resistance to disease and weak, on the environmental adaptability of relatively poor, thus protecting and enhancing children\'s health is extremely important. This requires a nanny from children on every aspect of life in one day, should pay attention to the serious, attentive, responsible, in particular children also do not know what is dangerous, often unexpected accidents, if slightly negligent, can affect their health and even have serious consequences. So the nurse to be responsible. This is a very important point.


(2), nanny to have knowledge of raising children. Best employment had with the children\'s nanny, as nanny has some experience of this kind, of course, if you can hire to a nanny with raising children knowledge is better.


(3) the nanny\'s conduct to straighten out. Nanny to have good social moral and professional ethics. Theft and abuse of the children\'s nanny was not without. At the time of employment, of course, this is not demonstrated, this requires you to her observations in the future.


(4) nanny body to health. Nanny health is directly related to children\'s health, if suffering from any communicable disease would spread the disease to children. Therefore, before hiring a nanny, to let employees go to the hospital for medical examination to confirm health to work as nannies. During the child, if the nanny is suffering from infectious diseases, to immediately stop working to prevent the spread the disease to children.

Shenzhen: three employers publicly snatch a nanny

Recently, a group of Guangxi nationality nanny arriving in Shenzhen, not organizational units, such as women\'s federations, Luohu district, Family Service Center Director will them into the House, leaders Zhongwei people rushed to waiting at the door, pulled his fancy nanny got informed. Speaking up despite several promptingsfrom Service Center staff, to make long horse Lawton\'s xiaobaomu drink up the stairs, take a break, employers seem to have no control over so much of the storm, remained three race a nanny, it appears that new nanny much can\'t meet their needs. An impatient employers even picked up nanny\'s baggage hold nanny hand to pull her back home, go back and do other formalities. A man chasing xiaobaomu said: \"I made a point of thanking Service Center Director requires a graduate nurse, you told me to go home, our home will also work for you in the future.\"


Nanny market supply and demand contradiction


Shenzhen in recent years, growing demand for nannies, nanny of Shenzhen families currently demand has reached around 200,000 people, but Shenzhen household management service can provide nannies is only between 100,000-120,000 people. According to the family service Association of Shenzhen said, about 30% domestic services in Shenzhen during the Spring Festival this year nearly 20,000 people to settle in the new year, home help for the public pool of services such as cleaning, cooking are particularly scarce, causing wages rose 50%, wages per hour from the usual $ 10 up to $ 15.


Nanny quality uneven


However, nanny uneven also gave a lot of the quality of Shenzhen family troubles, some members of the public complained to reporters: nanny only willing to do the housework or caring for the elderly, listening and speaking would also like to take the child with a flatly refuse. Although some families have repeatedly shows that elderly people home can take care of the child, just too busy to care about hope nanny can played down, but many people feel that risk rather than with children. Nanny not only unwilling to take the child, in some cases, pick on the old man\'s age, physical condition. A old man House had a more than 90 years old mothers, while the old lady to dinner, wash your feet daily to self-care, old gentleman requirements for nanny is cooking and simple household service, nanny clock is not required to serve the elderly, however several people heard that old lady is more than 90 years old with a flatly refuse.

A nanny in the family of the sweets and bitters

Use the words of a famous \"difficult to find a good job, find a good husband is more difficult, to find a good nanny difficult\", there are people literally can\'t find a good nanny than United States presidential election, believed a nanny in the family mothers share.


TV series of the Professor Tien 28 nurse, are played best of nanny\'s \"variety\" and looking for nannies, sweet and sour

Bitter. Unfortunately after the maternity leave I joined the nanny a family found, when MOM and dad have something urgent to go back to before the Spring Festival, every nurse shortage. Under the introduction to seven acquaintances of bend turn eight, finally has a Sichuan aunt promised in our time arrived, start a nanny in the family the sweets and bitters of life.


First, disappointing nanny


When nanny hard journey to my home, to my great disappointment, and acquaintances describe difference of 108,000. About 40, people didn\'t much higher but has a solid build, bucket-like waist, Zhu bajie-like stomach, who also seems to be covered with soil. I is the reluctance of 100, on this critical moment, having been sold but came home a few head coincided with the flesh of swine, all the way they must not be allowed back.


I identify the few spend rummaging through her mother\'s old clothes, let her into the bathroom wash all over from head to foot, the next day, took her to hospital for blood tests physical examination. Like our salaried family home is not an old man, even if the intermediary is not assured of pedicled with nanny root could not be found, I\'ll root causes others a bit. After weigh again, I was brave to remain with her.


Second, work with one\'s mind tired of training


She had no ID card, nor write, we do not know what she called, and can\'t even Mandarin said, full of home of words was not fully understand, so the hard conditions and disappoint me back a few steps, but there is no other way. Knew only her family name Yang, but later I called her and her husband Dr sister.


My young sister after the requirement for some work and began her training with children, of course, is not with her methods she used bottle feed are not. From water heaters, rice cookers, microwave ovens and some basic usage of electric, to flush milk, breastfeeding, regulating feed rice, steamed eggs, fruit juice, and even some details of the baby, and MOP the floor, furniture such as hands-on teaching. With the teaching her time to tell the truth I have done, but she just has bad memory, almost every program that repeatedly taught several times, but he kept muttering \"long-winded\". I ran out of patience and tolerance for all, also has tailored a schedule for kids, a few to drink milk, several eating baby food, drink juice, when to sleep, when I do outdoor activities, even drinking time was set, she simply do so on the line. More than a month after verifying that she can basically take the child, I was back to work.


Third, the days of fear


I was at work in Cao Ying han, typical of distraction. All day staring at his watch, thinking of children at home do not have at this time, sleep yet. Home making numerous phone calls a day, inquire the truth at any time. Once I called home phone has been no answer anxious I blow the Office telephone, a telephone call to the security unit in the community, resulting in security to doorbell at home nobody answered, was my heart beating fast n times the head is full of some nanny to steal or some of the reports of child trafficking. Hurriedly called husband ride motorcycles flying to return home, resulting in a false alarm, Dr who is breastfeeding the baby. Original phone is broken, husband hit several times with a mobile phone is not ringing, battery runs out or ring of the doorbell. A scared to death of deficiency I how many cells, this false alarm and the scene can be a lot, but my body cells divide faster.


Trial of four, wits


People have a habit of lazy, let alone is a nurse. We at home Shi pour quite diligent of, basically can by chapter operation, bottle tableware every day disinfection once, each available with boiling water then disinfection; children sleeping Shi to hanging nets; clothes to and adults clothes separate wash, and only with SOAP cannot with washing powder, and wash clean Hou to with compliant agent had once; Cook porridge Shi to placed some ingredients; cannot let children see TV sth sth. Dangmianyitao, a set of problems that can be said to be a nanny on the back, in order to enable the child to be better taken care of, I started a contest and nanny wits. Dang I found children of a new clothes was adults clothes dye black Hou I on pulled out has washing machine of pipes; Dang I ahead of home see nanny are with children see TV Shi I received up has TV antenna and shake controlled device; Dang I see pacifier off ground Shi nanny pick up up in who wipe a wipe use as-is Hou, I on requirements she in every day morning I out front Cook once bottle; Dang night children as hungry Wolf if Rob table Shang of meals Shi I on requirements nanny every day will children eat of porridge left is to I see, one can try try taste, secondly supervision she is Cook to children eat has sth sth Although this is not my airy character, but in order to address the child is really love of food and clothing have to Ah.


Five, make painstaking efforts of early childhood education


Early education childcare are now popular, expect a large does not know the nanny that is impossible, to let your child eat well. Crucial moment will have to rely on my mother \'s, I got all of his spare time, one to time out first rushed out of the Office, came home with the shortest possible time, after facelift to accompany the children to play the game, learning to talk. In accordance with the instructions on the parenting book to play the game, training big, fine motor, capacity, and so on are not missed. For my parental blind but through painstaking effort, the parenting books I turn in my family to pieces. In addition to is to work with children, even the husband into transparent people. Really not hard, and comfort is the daughter of the above development indicators. And daughter did not and nanny on the evil deeds but said the standard of Putonghua, can listen to three languages (Chinese, Cantonese and Sichuan language), this may be I has racked its brains to tell the story of the credit for it.

Six, respecting the nanny is the love child of another performance


Nanny is a profession also need to be respected, that\'s for sure, and baby eating Lazarus is pinched in the hands of her, if she gets mad with revenge to destroy your life, know this interest on the nanny as their own people, nanny to the children as their own people. First of all from dresses to care, now and then I let the unit most fat aunt bought clothes also helped me get a few back to her, even over her wardrobe can find her clothes to her, anyway, she lived in the United States has not. Dinner Shi I first with children let she eat finished Hou I then eat, eat fruit Shi, she together eat, even cut good has watermelon she to to bath I also is, she out together eat, refrigerator in preparation good of beverage, and milk, and ice cream let she at any time eat, to she so fat of body bone at any time cooling, a a bit headache cold immediate to she buy drug, returned to distribution Shang vitamin tablets and the muscle Glycoside, to improve body immunity. Also frequently took her out for dinner, go shopping or something, so she had a good feeling. Although in addition to paying her wages to take a lot of money, but is she can pay all of the children, this value than anything.


I altogether, a nurse of the year, and there is no change, the nanny has been regarded as a good understanding of industry, but one of the sweets and bitters are endless, not finished.


Full of grievances, a bitter tear, author nerd who solutions?

Nanny pioneering brands open circuit

As urbanization and industrialization continue to promote, transfer of the rural population has become the trend. Employment problems of the rural population is also growing, particularly middle-aged and young women in rural areas, most of their education level is low, more traditional ideas, and to take on more domestic employment channel is narrower. At present, domestic service are the main channels of their entrepreneurship, employment.


However, on the domestic market in Jiangxi, but there is a strange phenomenon for a long time: on the one hand, many urban households cannot find suitable domestic staff, especially the nanny \"difficult to get a person\"; on the other hand, a lot of hope out of pioneering work of rural women are at a loss, can not even competent domestic jobs, nanny jobs. In this regard, people believed that nanny business, open to brands. By regulating the market, the Organization of training, thinning services, started domestic company brands, enhance the visibility of local nannies, so that the rural female employment, entrepreneurial road is smooth, the trip, the width.


Market calls \"wife of an elder cousin\"


One or two years, Sichuan, Shandong, and other places by the Government to promote and market-driven, or even organization nanny Beijing, started a \"sister\", \"red woman\" Nanny brand, made a very good social and economic benefits. In fact, Jiangxi\'s advantages more obvious in this respect. Jiangxi people honest and trustworthy, hardworking kind, \"Cousin\", \"wife of an elder cousin\" cordial nature, rich cultural heritage, the war was popular, even Chairman Mao did call people in Jiangxi province, and was \"sent unfit Red Army\" and other stories, if these red organic integration of resources, can make \"the wife of an elder cousin\" Nanny brand.


In fact, at present on the domestic market is still very lacking in Jiangxi nannies, nanny of particularly high quality, safe and reliable. In a home economics Centre of the window stack Hill Road in Nanchang city, reporters found numerous candidates are basically hired a nanny. And the road in the child solid employment agency, Jiangxi, China talent market of several large recruiting sites exist, such as nannies, housekeeping service difficult this phenomenon. In particular several domestic companies for \"nurse shortage\" poured their grievances. According to the labor package introduced by the Chief of the domestic service center of Nanchang, the original, Nanny is seasonal. Before the Spring Festival, busy time generally hard to find, as they are mostly from the countryside, and is home of the main labour force, should go back to work. But after the Spring Festival, after the end of the busy and nice move, but now has no peak seasons, light points. For example, they can provide nannies 10-20 people now, but there are forty or fifty people called to ask, can be said to be utterly inadequate, and demand. Some residents even spat in order to compete with a nanny, who only holds first registration we first principles.


A brand, and quality are less


Employment agencies in child-solid road mother-in-law told reporters, who found a nanny, she recently has been looking for a nanny, local domestic companies, employment agencies, and even spontaneous nanny she often around the market, hoping to find heart of nannies at an early date. According to her introduction, the original home Nanny is very good, are very satisfied with the whole family, because in rural areas, in July or August when home \"rush harvesting and rush planting\" there to be gained. But later a nurse did not two months at home, and home by her husband. Now finally also requests to a nanny, but because she is too old, in poor health, are afraid to get her to do many things, but now babies only two months, daughter-in-law, and about to go to work, really quick and the dead.


And another of Mr Wu is a wry smile, told reporters: \"our home is just three people, nothing more, Nanny is primarily let her answer the child, and cooking. So put particular importance on nanny\'s character is honest, and caring. In this way, wages have been added to the 600, is also difficult to find. \"Miss Cheung said:\" my child learn to talk, so I wanted to find a young girl, so that children may be more lively and may be registered in the home economics Centre for a long time, also could not find appropriate. ”


Citizens generally, current nanny cohabitation in the market, many nanny generally low quality; many domestic companies is in question, does not talk about reputation, on the asking price, and so on, in their view, to make \"the wife of an elder cousin\" be known all over the province, the national, a brand, reputation, and quality are not less!


\"The wife of an elder cousin\" idea you want to change a variable


Of course, difficult to get a baby sitter, and some \"wife of an elder cousin\" idea is too conservative, also relevant. According to industry analysis that the nanny is increasingly difficult to find, in addition to increasing demand for nannies, nanny supply source are less and less. Because countries introduced policies to support the farmers make their revenue is getting higher and higher, while the local township enterprises have mushroomed, \"wages are not high, but real income\", pragmatic ideas started part of migrant workers not displaced from their homes. And did most of the nanny is the backbone of the family, if a job\'s income with work at home, that most of the peasant workers will choose to stay at home.


Chief of the labor package of domestic service center of Nanchang said: \"as long as a little culture mostly young girls are not willing to be a nanny, low wages, the second group of sound is not good, not as good as when when a salesman or something, wages are higher, reputation and good. And the middle-aged woman is because of the family, most of them don\'t want to be a nurse, they mostly tend to do a pool, a good laizhi you want to schedule, several part-time wages much higher than the nanny, and secondly also able to combine things at home. ”


And a domestic company, Ms Lee said, some employers to nanny too critical and also makes a lot of people would rather stay at home, is not willing to do nanny. In her view, as an employer, should be when a zijiaren nanny, cannot be assumed as superior posture, employers want to nurse from \"total\" and \"intelligent\", but not with undue haste. As a nanny, self-respect, self-love, self-reliance, in addition to doing a job, or to learn more, improve their quality as possible. When you get along with employers, to communicate with them, do not know the questions and

Ask when, something like take care of their things as caring employer home. All in all, we all want to put yourself in each other and think, when it encounters a thing, stand in each other\'s point of view problems.

People concerned believe that the relevant government departments should strengthen guidance and training, human resources in developing local nannies, provide the public with more standardized management of nurse team. At the same time, the entire society should abandon the \"when the nanny inferior\" old ideas, only a change of mindset, really as a family business of domestic service platform, to turn my unrealistic \"face\" to get nanny market the cake, the bigger and more to eat the tasty!

Custody of the child for college students, nurse-family education popularity

Children young, after summer holidays does not take care of themselves, looking for a college student accompany children at home, you can either teach lessons and \"teacher\" in charge, and will not let their children out in the wild freedom. From the earlier morning tutor for their children\'s activities, reporters found that more and more parents choose a \"nanny\" tutor.



? 牐 San? parent Ms Wong told reporters; second grade on her child, a boy, particularly naughty. She and her husband to work on weekdays, to the summer who has custody of the child into challenges.



? 牐 Quan ⒆ you check mark support.? lack of self-control, if hooked on online games do? what if their downstairs to play lost? in case home and watch TV all day what should I do? if the bad guys knocking do? children eat at noon also became a problem, let the children they worry at home.



? 牐 GE 构词成分。 bit tiller reef Tong Tong Ke 构词成分。 porcelain ィ? concluded that one college student tutors charge child more practicable. Morning she describes, son of a female college student, Monday to Friday all day to accompany his son, review lessons every morning, children read extracurricular books, supervise children practice, cooking at home with the children to eat at noon after meals after the lunch break for a while to do in the game, accompanied the children downstairs and play, prepare next semester courses.



? Chuang ∮ Xin Shun a basket trap for fish at the opening of a Weir? health nurse, son of summer life were arranged in good order, Ms Wang feel at ease. Period of time before the adoption of tutors, son and teach teachers to establish a great affection, son special hearing \"sister sister\", the son and sister live with college students, felt I also grew up a lot. Although this summer, Ms WONG to pay a sum of money in tutoring fees, paid month pass is usually around $ 500 as a whole, but she is also considered more cost-effective, because the tutoring fees than pricing on the hour, relatively cheaper.

River City requires high quality nurse

Many people anxious to roses nanny could not be found, they complained, not nanny \"wait on\" us, but we \"wait on\" the nanny. After all, is too nanny \"low quality\" services are not in place.


Laid-off workers when the nanny\'s \"advantage\"


City Federation of women in hand, home economics, you can hear many of these stories: Ms LAU, three years ago to take maternity leave, employed by friends who worked in flour mill in laid-off women workers this nanny. When it comes to caregiver benefits of this, Madam Lau thankful to say, was 45 years old child special patient work special clean, also took the initiative to do the housework such as cleaning the room. Although the child is 3 years old kindergarten, nanny Ms Zhang has been fired, but the two have established family, when it has established.


Hand one of home economics official said, right now, there is on domestic service level requirements of a growing high, very picky when choosing a nanny, but from the perspective of the market in the near future, have had work experience in enterprise\'s nanny has a good reputation in the service is becoming employers scrambling to employ domestic helpers, people hire a nanny that difficult problems have eased. Laid-off workers will do nanny so popular for the following reasons:


Laid-off workers in the formal management of enterprises, there are certain cultural quality, after re-employment training naturally have a certain competitive advantage. For instance, some laid-off workers doing pool work very much in place, sometimes get nine keys, to various employers home once or twice a week, Mon-Sun filled every day. Employer home many working parents to work, after the pool will clean the room and locked the door. Between employers and workers often seen for several months on a surface, when spending, employers put money on the table in the room, write a note, a lot, waiting for the employees take on their own.


Laid-off workers familiar with city life, into the role more quickly. Employer\'s furniture and some special advanced high grade, worth more than thousands, laid-off workers are often alone, and nanny and lower level of the countryside to the city to work, thinking and urban difference, such as home appliance does not understand, do not use, exposure to relatively new. Some rural nanny into their employer\'s House just to sit, employer asked her why not work at all, she replied: more than 200 square meters of the House so clean, do anything?


Laid-off workers \' asking price is reasonable. General do nanny but two years on wage issues can be aware of, know how big the House, how much, how many workload, are doing, you can estimate the price. And some rural nanny at first appearance seems to be holding \"gold rush\" aspirations, wants is to make money more often to baibashi Yuan on the wage issue. Laid-off workers in order to survive, for their children to school, particularly willing to suffer, and asking price more in line with the market.


Nanny should be \"a member of the family\"


Harbour, a Manager said of the home economics Centre, people in the past on nanny just work clean at the request of some employers to nanny began to pay attention to their personal health, whether it was clean, wear clean, so as to determine whether the nanny work clean. Some employers even more carefully, and even nurse nails and hair are to be looked at, and said that a look at the shoes knew that people do not clean. Now, people on the definition of a qualified nanny had far more than this. Nanny must undergo professional training before induction, training content includes not only the basic skills of the home economics Centre, more importance to the nurse\'s psychological training, is designed to give nanny on their own confidence, work as nanny to normal work, good working attitude, dignified, highly trained. Only trained nannies to help employers freed from tedious chores, truly free from worry and effort.


Nannies are according to their own work experience, for the so-called \"high quality\" has a different understanding.


Hand domestic pool of Xin said, now most of the employers stressed caregiver to loving, responsible, capable of integration into the family of his own, so I think that \"high quality nurse\" is to be the employer is a member of the family, \"home to you the confidence and peace of mind, not too much to say, the live do good.\" However, is able to completely do not regard themselves as outsiders, some things cannot touch, it is best to give them a call before, after or leave a note to explain to others.


Hand of home economics \"month her sister-in-law\" Hou Lady believes that \"high quality\" is the meaning of a certain degree of expertise and skills. She said now is very high with awareness of maternal and child care, and the previous immeasurably, served before confinement, can stay up on the line, now require expertise, nursing child, so that it does not make anything wrong with. Hou ladies think \"Moon woman\" work time while only 30 days, but a responsible child born first month if care is not good, hot and cold, fever had pneumonia, later a cold had pneumonia, to that end, waiting woman to buy the baby Guinness book seriously studied.


In analysis why \"high quality\" of nanny was market favored Shi, Harbour home economics Center of one manager said, past, people employed nanny of motivation General has two species, a is distress type of, is home has elderly, and patients, and maternal, and newborn, must please nanny nursing, second is need type of, is home room area is large, work and is busy, need please nanny help restaurant domestic. But now with the improvement of people\'s standard of living, the nanny on the market of the new consumer motivation, which enjoy, high income from such employer, often employing thousands of dollars in wages to eat live nanny. This allegedly \"high quality\", high wage nanny cook delicious, you can feel so that employers have a restaurant every day.


Call for \"highly qualified employers\"


In interviews, several nannies also conveyed a message to reporters, while efforts to improve the quality of men and women, want to be respected by employers, in fact, their employers have begun \"picky\". A home economics Centre boss believes that employers get along with nannies, take note of the following several points:


>1. the nanny industry in China is generally laid-off workers and rural workers, pride strong, are usually required to live in this business, not like at the outset of this industry, so to them with respect to, in front of the guests should not be directly referred to as \"nanny\", and shall call his name more appropriate. Homemaking personnel be respected after hard work.

2. they do not expect and you have the same taste. To educate and guide them with tolerant heart.


3. as far as possible without command tone to them. Many people do not have equality, considered human servant housekeeping personnel. It is a good housekeeping staff are reluctant to work under the environment of discrimination, not to mention good performance.


4. at the right time to give her attention, such as: life, holidays, salary, sure you will get better service. Some housekeeping staff, and you get long also became a member of your family, like a family, and can follow you for many years, was a great help to you.


5. If the other province\'s housekeeping staff, when they are likely to want to masters of the early, it may need to contact their families, or over a period of time required to go home, this note.


6. a Home Economics staff home services, constitutes in fact the employment relationship, such as Home Economics staff injured employers should also undertake corresponding obligations. This need to have the attention to domestic companies when hiring domestic availability of insurance services, in order to avoid unnecessary trouble.

Game nanny! Children games have you peace of mind

As the madness of the era of online games on the Mainland, and this new term is also related to the emerging, confusing when immediate feel the strong force field of online games, let swept cannot escape from. And children, is the center of the storm\'s eyes, is our everlasting sorrow looked into shadow.


Child perversely called, \"I want to play games! I\'m game! \"Like 500 years ago, align the great Holy Buddha under pressure in Wuzhishan, cry of the children was a training call, opposed the repression. Unruly monkeys cannot be suppressed, children love playing with nature could not be killed, perhaps it\'s time we calm reflection, just trying to suppress are the only way out? This is really what can stop you? In April 2004, the weekly e-era has made \"game nanny\" concept, quite worthy of our chewing.


Online games since birth, seem to be playing on the imprint of original sin, even as a scourge. Newspapers, on television, because the network gaming and social problems caused, especially adolescents; so the clamour sound, beat sound, at the online game head-bashing.


Indeed, we are unable to escape the game does make a large number of children and go down, even playing problem to reality. So parents and the community has reason to take an across-the-Board approach. But really: is this? Let us look at some news, the 12 year old girl bubble Internet cafes after the 3-day disappearance so far is not owned by and the online game-addiction is unable to 12 years of primary school students commit suicide by taking poison, the Japan playing games is afraid of being an informer of 13 year old girl killed 5 children sth From behind these tragedies can we not aware of what to do?


Grasslands, out of many is a human tragedy; blocking, blocking is a scourge!


Even so, the network game under such adverse social pressure, still has its strong vitality. Game player\'s camp is great step by step, in the United States, and Korea and other countries, online games or even become an emerging industry, strong development. This is also a phenomenon that we should not be ignored. In fact everything has two sides, online gaming is a double-edged sword, the key lies in how to use it. Online games are in fact have a good effect of special education, you can boot the child\'s interest and broaden the child\'s imagination. Many examples tell us that many computer experts are from the beginning of the game. After playing in the game have to drill down, some of the things people will research behind the game. Many hackers, network wizards, author of many fantasy novels, and even some large animation designers began. Game no doubt makes a large number of love and is familiar with computers, and gaming culture of talent. Hunan girl Chen Yuan is a very good example, she is 19 years old and get the MCP the Microsoft certified product specialist certificate, became China\'s youngest Microsoft certified system engineers 21 years, and he was admitted to Harvard University, Department of Astrophysical, PhD. She was from the beginning into the game of the zhengguo.


From the Chen Yuan\'s case, we see a bit of hope. Who let her avoid possible tragedies to the Shining Path? Recalling her growing up, let us know, is his father, Chen Yuan-father of successful education.


Nanny of the game, how can I hold your hand


Yes, in fact, we all know, blocking, rather than soothing; the big stick policy than persuasive, this is such a common sense way to an education, but are we blinded by the son of the moment. The good news is, there are still suffering after seriously reflect on, understand a hundred key still has a soothing, blocking is not a way of solving the problem. Thus, \"nanny of the game\" would have been born in the context of this timely.


\"Nanny of the game\", according to its advocates of the weekly e-time interpretation, is a person who guide and help others the right to play the game. But it is clear that, actually, as a \"nanny of the game\", in addition to the correct guidance, help others play the game, also had a responsibility to help children learn knowledge from the game, even the assumption in the civil duties of game ratings. This requires \"nanny of the game\" the left-hand side must first be a game for various game has a more comprehensive and profound knowledge and understanding, to properly judge the quality of the game to make a choice, followed by patience and carefulness with nanny, should be good at teaching and communication again is to ask the good character, allows parents and children safely.


It would appear that the \"game nanny\" itself is more demanding, of society on its hopes of a better, and some even flood era than in the game \"tayu\", starting from the day of the birth, the ideal color and with a strong social mission. But in China, there is no real precedent for our reference, we can not blindly be dazzled by the beautiful mind of the head. In order to really bring out the possible future professional role for our lovely children, calling looking forward at the same time, we treated this in a calm manner.


The parents to choose \"game nanny\", do not hold life-saving idea impulse comes, for the responsible attitude to their children, be careful investigation of candidate truly reliable convinced the selected person worthy of trust. But then again came back, the ability of parents are limited, \"nanny of the game\" the judge is also the number does not have a clue, then, is it possible, social forces, to organize such a professional body, helps parents and kids to choose. At the same time, \"game nanny\" is still a new thing, for those who want to do \"game nanny\" of people, a little to gain, did not know how to do well, which may also need a professional body to training-related talents. Or what is more, we do not rule out with the development needs of \"nanny of the game\" it\'s a rich professional will be more mature, perhaps in the near future will offer related professional, specialized training such personnel.


In any case, whether it\'s for \"nanny of the game\", or is for the parent community, were still at the stage of stone exploring. In the actual operation of the process, will certainly generate a lot of problems, and will slowly be found. Only hope that we in this road

More on rational calm, less some detours, all because the lovely children, our hope!

A later story: over the years, the controversial network and online games, at the same time they give us high-tech convenience, also brought us many problems, particularly with regard to youth. Children love to play, but also lacks strong self-control; networks and game also really unhealthy violent pornography; the point is that we what to choose and use instead of Handa shouting kill. Not long ago, \"networks for mother\" that another network and create new groups of thermal concerns and reported by the media. To a certain extent, \"nanny of the game\" and \"network mother\" is similar in common, they are a function of education, in fact, I\'d rather they collectively known as the \"soul network architect\", because of their professional nature closer to the human soul, and teachers. Confucius did not have said, teacher, preacher, shouye, doubts also. It can be said that they are the teachers of a Variant or derivative of it, are aimed at repairing plastic human born the beautiful Palace of mind.

Students \' nanny, reduce the burden or a lack of daily

Recently, the major colleges and universities have started school in Harbin city, colleges and universities around the domestic services of the company\'s business is booming up, some prepared articles by college students, lack of self-care ability of college students and families with better conditions of college students, have to book a nanny or a pool of domestic services company, hoping to reduce their burden and relieve pressure. Education scholars believe that doing so will make students rely on psychological, cultivating the ability of students.


5th, in Harbin, Xiangfang District public binlu macro service center, reporters met Wang of University students were about to hire a nanny, she told reporters that she was a senior student in a University, this year postgraduate entrance examination. As in the field, plus articles by time, she wants to find a nanny to help with cooking, washing clothes, reduce the burden on their own. Xiangfang District food Arts Street, Li told reporters of a housing agency, since its school, looking for nurse students increased sharply, have parents on behalf of children to find, there came by the students themselves, can every day to a few. Nurse most of college students is to ask the housework such as cooking, washing clothes. To this end, the intermediary is sometimes a nurse shortage situation occurs. Subsequently, the journalists also visited Harbin, several other universities. A University in Harbin xuefu road, Nangang district, a freshman to a Lee told reporters, his home in Mudanjiang city, a few days ago he called domestic companies made a reservation a nanny. When asked why when you nurse, he said slightly shy, too much stress for students, in addition to learning are learning every day. To alleviate the burden, he wants to hire a nanny to help him wash his clothes and when you do not want to eat meals in school canteens, can also have a nanny to do some home cooking.


In visiting, a student in a University told reporters that they students of Mr Frederick FUNG a nanny with almost every serve, not to wash the clothes, replace sheets quilt cover, that is, to send him to school meals. Under the guidance of the students, reporters found a FUNG, the Honourable Frederick FUNG said with a shy, his home in Harbin, because the parents annual doing business overseas, he has taken care of by the nurse, now live in every day, nanny naturally to the school to take care of him.


20 years of small light (alias) is a College of Harbin Department of computer science students. Journalists in Xian Taipingqiao housing intermediary parents to see a little light, they are small bright hired a nanny. Small bright parents told reporters, their house in Qiqihar city, children have never left home, left home for the first time at College. Small lights at home, has always been yilaishenshou, and eat a ready cooked meal, nothing to do, now a man in the field, they do not rest assured, so spend three hundred or four hundred dollars for each month he asked a nurse to help him wash his clothes, bed sheets. So assured not only parents and children can give ourselves to learning. When asked about facing parents of small light when what is such an arrangement, parents say lighter small, small bright initially does not agree, for fear of students know the jokes he, but in their insistence on request, also agreed. They said, so when their home was relieved. Subsequently, the reporters interviewed Harbin some some of the students in colleges and universities, and saw that a similar situation.


Harbin King reporter said of the family services centres of women\'s Federation, which gives domestic services now has a new demand. Because students are different from older people and infants, employing nannies college students are generally of good family and there is huge pressure on students. Domestic companies how to develop a number of suitable for college students, can have the satisfaction of the students in home economics service personnel is a new problem.


For college students to employ a nanny, Heilongjiang University teacher in charge of students talk about their views, in the case of family conditions permit, college students, nanny belonging to an individual\'s behavior. For those busy with postgraduate students, in order to put all the energy used in the study, nanny to take care of their daily lives, which is understandable. But overall, students now as only children, poor self-care ability, parents should focus on fostering their self-reliance should not overly doting children.


For college students hired a nanny, a Heilongjiang University Professor of law, although the school does not provide for this, but doing so will make some dependent psychology of college students, took to the later lack of suffering spirits and resilience of our community in the future.

Mistress and contradictions, the nurse poisoned 15-month baby girl

Have a contradiction because and owners, nanny Xu Yingmei extended 15-month-old baby murderous scheme, mixed with nitrite on children poisoned in the milk. Recently, Xu Yingmei was prosecutorial branch to the second, prosecution of the crime of intentional homicide.


In September 2004, Jiangsu Xu Ying, aged 50 United States and become the summer home of nanny. Summer live in Yangpu district, an upscale community, master unit of husband and wife are middle-aged backbone. Xu Ying mei\'s job is to take care of the babies of less than 15 months, are serving elderly sick old man, also housework such as cooking three meals. Initially, agile movements of Xu Yingmei and owners relationships very well. However on the problems in bringing up baby, she had a contradictory and hostess.


Mistress gave birth to daughters only At Middle Age, \' community care, poor feel Xu Ying beauty care for the kids, both from the initial non-satisfaction, to the development of spat continued. A quarrel, mistress Xu Yingmei threatened to stab to death, then, Hostess decided to her from the family home, avoiding Pudong, also send their children to a friend\'s home a few days.


After being dismissed, Xu Yingmei couldn\'t find a job, before leaving Shanghai, back to the summer to see the summer my grandmother. Then she suddenly read hostess of revenge, the baby\'s leftover milk powder cans secretly put a spoon in nitrite-meat powder nitrate. That evening, hostess daughter foamed milk as usual, and soon the child started General Blue, die that day.


After 2 days, back to the Xu Yingmei haian by Shanghai police arrested, confessed to their crimes.


Nanny crime should not be ignored


According to the statistics in the procuratorial organs in a district, nanny to steal the cases accepted for the year 15.6% of the total number of theft cases. According to analysis, nanny crime mainly has following several major categories:


Violations of property type of crime: some nanny rampant theft of employer money, and bring money and escape; nanny to family difficulties, which name to borrow money but fraud; others for extortion money from employers, willing to kidnap their children.


Crime against the person class: retaliation from some trivial nanny for life reading, committed the crimes of murder or bodily harm; some men and nanny had raped women employers; some nanny abduction or trafficking in children, and some trick, abuse of the elderly and children. This case is one example.


Crimes of disrupting marriage and family class: some female nurse employer interference and his wife\'s life, and men and the employers even cohabitation, fertility being formed bigamy; some nanny after luring employers have sexual relations, forced their divorce with their marriage, and even male employers conspiring to kill the hostess.

\"With the nurse\" is a \"tender trap\"

\"This is your mother? \"\" No, she is my family\'s nanny. \"The morning of August 15, in Hubei Wuhan Wuchang railway station out station, born Wang Xiong answers, reception of Hubei vocational college teachers by surprise. It turns out that Wang Xiong\'s parents are worried that he could not themselves, decided to let the nurse went to school together, help Wang Xiong take care of life.


Nowadays, ambitious for one\'s children, hope women into Phoenix, is the common wish of the parents all over the world. Many parents always hope that children avoid detours, they always tried to shelter for the children, thinking that this is the greatest care and love for the kids, now has a \"with the nurse\", accompany children to go to College! Poor parents anywhere, they feel they can understand, but excessive indulgence, not only affects the physical and mental health of children and impede the development of their ability. Giving children a \"with the nurse\", so that children grow up on the roads of mining a tender trap.


First of all, falling into the \"with the nurse\" gentle trap children easily develop pride in habits of luxury and arrogant, luxury, to finally enjoy the, no progress, easy to form a child\'s bad habits. Second, fell into the \"with the nurse\" gentle trap children because they were deprived of the chance of failure and frustration, will not make mistakes and do not know how to correct errors, naturally do not have access to experiences and lessons learned, thus never learn to perfect on the ball. This the reason that it\'s very simple: do not let your child learn to fall over one\'s feet, the children never walk. Therefore, parents do not give children set \"with the nurse\" has the tender trap, or give them free opportunities for growth, let them withstand setbacks, freedom fight at University!



Famous educationalist Tao xingzhi\'s has got young people: \"drops of his sweat, eat their meals, own business on your own, one by day by ancestors, not a warrior. \"To the parents of children with nannies to go to College, are also loosely it!